is it a good idea to go out with an older women or younger man?
At what point is the age gap too big?
2006-10-30 01:43:34 · 14 answers · asked by Heather 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i'm not worried about my situation, my boyfriends only 18months younger than me and we are very happy. I was just wondering what other people throught was exceptable.
2006-10-30 01:50:37 · update #1
The older you get, the more acceptable it is. As long as it's legal then who cares if you're in love......
2006-10-30 01:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't think an age gap is an issue, but if it's too big - like 20 years, it might be a bit of a problem when the older one is too old and the younger one still wants to go out and have fun.
2006-10-30 02:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by La 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't really see a problem with it as long as the people are happy together. Like with Anna Nicole and her husband that died..... They may have been very different in age but if she made his last days on this world happy then that should make his family happy. (I am not a fan of hers at all!!!! I just don't agree with his family in this case)
I was with a man that was only a yr older than me and wasn't happy! Now I'm with a man that is 5 yrs older and I haven't been happier!!! My grandparents are like 20 yrs different and they are happy!!! My mother was with a man that was older than her and got divorced now she is with a younger man and been happily married for like 5 yrs! I think it all depends on the situation and how YOU see it not the world!
2006-10-30 02:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by angel_ginn78 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 11 years to a man that was the same age that I am. It was the most misreable 11 years of my life. I got a divorce and met a man that is 23 years older than me and I have been HAPPILY married now for 10 1/2 years. I am a firm believer that age isn't an issue unless you make it one. Love doesn't know age. The important thing in any relatioinship is that their is mutual trust and respect. As long as you have love, all thigns are possible.
2006-10-30 02:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally, i wouldn't go out with someone thats younger than me or a guy thats much too old.
I'd prefer someone a little older than me or my age. I think maximum I'd go up to is 4 or 5 years older. But i think it's fine if people go up to 10 years.
2006-10-30 01:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i all depends on what age you are now.
if they are younger like teenage, it's okay for a girl to go-out with a younger guy but the only accceptable age difference would be 1-2 years depending upon late or early teens.
if you are like 18+ it's okay to go-out with who ever you feel most comforable with.
2006-10-30 01:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother and father have a 15 year age gap and that hasn't bothered them. Can someone tell me when it's 3.30pm because I have to pick my girlfriend up from school?
2006-10-30 03:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Rattler M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I think no more than a five year gap between couples.
2006-10-30 02:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well I think if two people get along and enjoy each others company, then age shouldn't come in to it.If the people involved are comfortable with it why worry what other people think.
2006-10-30 01:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Blue ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres 8 years of a difference between me and my partner (he's older) and we have never had any problems.
2006-10-30 07:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by feefee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your 20 and he;s sixty
or if hes; 30 and your 80
2006-10-30 01:45:26 · answer #11 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋