we r in the same skool. i know him for abt 7 yrs. b4 i never used 2 talk wid him neither he. but suddenly b4 1 yr (2005) he started talking wid me. he danced with me in a party, he started behaving really well. 4 all those i fell in luv wid him from the core of my heart. trust me he was my first true luv. that time the world seemed like a heaven to me and i used 2 laugh without any reason. but now he don even talk 2 me, i really miss those days. i tried my best 2 forget him but its impossible 4 me. quite tough! i'm afraid if he totally stops talking with me if i tell him my feelings. plez help..............wat 2 do???
2006-10-30 01:22:20 · 15 answers · asked by DrAmA QuEeN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hum, yeah .... same is the case here. Even now i am in trouble. I`ll tell you what happened. There`s this girl living by my house. One day i noticed that she was seeing me and whenever i saw her she used to hide in her window. At first i thought it was fun but after sometime i wanted more and started to wait for her every now and then. She came she smiled and then she went. And that felt satisfyimg and i felt very happy and literally i didn`t needed anything except her. Then about a week from now i noticed that she was not showing up but still i waited for her, finally she showed up but what she does ... she stares me back like i did some terrible thing and then she went back in. I was stunned at her behaviour. this happened quiet a few times. I decided that she was not the one for me. But still i do have a soft corner for her somewhere in me. I dont` know weather i can forget her. But it would be best for you to try as hard to forget him, he might have made a new firend or misunderstood you. If that is the case try talking to him. If no use then u can always find new friends here. I am trying as hard as i can to forget her, may be i too need help. But lets pray for each other that GOD does the BEST for all !
Salik
2006-10-30 01:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Salik K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That can really tough. It is very difficult to get over your first love. Actually, it's been 5 years and I'm still not over mine. That being said...you have to talk to him. Tell him how you feel. I mean don't tell him his your first love and you can't stop thinking about him, but tell him you miss him and that you have feelings for him. Maybe he feels the same way and is scared so he doesn't know what else to do. If you tell him how you feel, he might say he feels the same way. Or if he does stop talking to you it won't be forever. He would probably be confused and need time to think about what you told him. But if he is in fact your 1st love you have to face your fears and try. You never know this could evolve into a beautiful relationship.
2006-10-30 01:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by cassyortiz85 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he decided not to talk to you is for a reason most likely he does not feel the same way you do about him. You will truly find someone who really adores your or likes you , you have to wait for that moment to come, Ive dated so many people been In love once with my ex boyfriend I was not able to forget about him for a year I tried to work things out but never ended up working out. I was miserable now he has another girlfriend and completely moved on, I have moved on as well I met this amazing guy and I hope everything goes well with him. If he stop talking to you is because he doesnt like you anymore or youve done something bad to piss him off for him not to talk to you. Eventually you will get over him, give him time, what is for you its for you and no one can possibly change that. Be positive and someone would come to your life when you least expect it
2006-10-30 01:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful Me! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen this seriously
Think if he can forget u then y u not?
dont think he is the only 1 person, just do that thinks u like
if ur love is true then 1day u will be the happiest person of the world
2006-10-30 01:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by RIMA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay more attention in English classes, that was almost impossible to understand. Tell him how you feel otherwise you might spend a long time regretting it.
2006-10-30 01:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mikey 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dont tell him how you feel coz imagine the embarrassment if he doesnt feel the same way.so maybe u could ask one of his buddies to ask him weather he still likes u or not.
2006-10-30 01:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Wind Chime 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you speak as badly as you write, it's no wonder he doesn't realise how you feel. He probably thinks you're a foreigner speaking a starnge language, you illiterate trout.
2006-10-30 01:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Phish 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him how you feel if he feels the same way you can be happy if he turns you down then you can move on atleast you know and can move forward
2006-10-30 01:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he was your 1st love so i understand but thats it sounds like you need 2 move on gd luck
2006-10-30 01:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by hayley m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is this a text message or do you normally talk like this...post this question again without writing in text language the maybe we will understand the question...jeez....
2006-10-30 01:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋