& no, i am not talking about suic...
I find that every time my love plans fall apart I get to feel this way. I don't fall in love easily & just when I am about to say this will be the love of my life, it happens and I'm beginning to think I'll never experience the romantic bliss. (please don't mistake this for the pleasures of friendships, hobbies & work. these are all very, very different things and can't ever be compared so don't even go there. at the end of the day, you know what it's all about)
thanx
2006-10-30 01:17:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when u fall in love u just fall in love, u don't think:ok, this is a sutable guy, probably i should start falling in love with him. i think here is your problem. just open your heart and eyes (and brains of course) for new beginning
2006-10-30 01:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand love is a very selfish thing on both ends. Divorce proves this. When all is said and done it seems love is divided like the spoils of war. We walk away trying to figure out what we put into the ordeal. Love as you refer has it's ups and downs and some are even blinded by the ins and outs of it if you will. First you have to have an accurate definition of what you think love is before you can have it own up to your expectations. Love is designed by those who think they practice it. You may experience love many times in your life but remember that you will always feel to a degree that the grass is greener on the other side. Some that are blinded by love won't know the difference and sometimes are just going through the motions of what they believe is love. I know of three people going through divorce and some you would never think had any problems and you never hear from them until they are suddenly seperate from their relationship and as soon as they fall into another they disappear again. Sort of like fair weather friends who need you when they are alone but wouldn't give you the time of day otherwise. I have hardened my heart with love and have little sympathy for those who can't deal with the reality that people evolve and feelings change or they find someone else. All this is pretty much normal. Sometimes we trade up and sometimes we trade down or we choose our own pathetic lonely existance usually pacified by cheap sex or drugs. Often the lonely are quick to settle for whatever comes their way to calm their loneliness these are the ones who do not understand love and just settle for some company. We all wear a mask to please people but the real person eventually surfaces and that is where people discover it wasn't love at all. Some will tell you all the lousy things their former mate did and then go back to them or choose someone almost exactly the same. This is sad and the usual order of the day for lovers. Love is blind.... and somewhat stupid.
2006-10-30 01:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there's no such thing as romantic bliss. So the reason you can't seem to find it, is because you have an unrealistic expectation.
Second of all, a real realtionship takes work. Sometimes you're on a high point, sometimes a low point, but you have to keep going and communicate.
2006-10-30 01:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something Specially
For You
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-30 01:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people go through many wrong partners before they find the one they're meant to be with. Don't push too hard, but don't get down on yourself either. It's okay to be wrong. It's worth it in the end. You'll see. If you're searching hard, slow down and see what happens.
2006-10-30 01:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by krisski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not the other one who feels sad and confused when a relationship falls through !!!
2006-10-30 01:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what was your question? It sounds like you may want to look into getting a prescription for Zoloft...
2006-10-30 01:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by mentalchallenge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just turn on the News...feel grateful !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-30 01:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋