how should i go ahead with this job and also missing my family too..
2006-10-30 00:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by nitin c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe it's time for . . . . . . divorce.
2006-10-30 00:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by DustInCarroll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love conquers distance, space, time, and ALL else. This is a season, where you need to work abroad. It won't be forever. Tell yourself this is for YOUR future together, and you will be okay. The longing will not get better, but if you have contact and pour out your love for each other with words, it somehow makes it easier to wait.
And the wait.... oh my! It's going to be worth it when you re-unite!! Just hang in there. Write letters, call, get as much as you can out of "being" with her whenever you can. Sometimes someone who is far away can be closer than close, just because love keeps them together. Don't listen to negativity - your mind gives you enough already, doesn't it?!
Good luck. Best wishes to you both.
2006-10-30 08:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your goal? what do you want out of marrige? out of work? being far away from your love is very difficult. what if you're lonley and go looking for some one to help with the lonlyness.. what if she does?
prob. never happen.\
\but why put yourself in harms way.
Oh, I forgot, this was the only job on the planet.
maybe it's not. maybe you beiing with her is worth much more than gold or advancement.
better a job at a fast food and a loving wife that's close than
the corp. suite and a lost love.
peace out far away dude.
frankie c.
2006-10-30 08:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by frankiechocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because of people we love that we are able to bear things and sacrifice. It truly is sad but the reason why you went abroad int he first place was to give your family a better future. Hang in there. I'm sure they miss you too, but they are also willing to sacrifice. Pray that the Lord, inspite of the physical distance, will strengthen your family. Call and send card often, and know that you are not the only one who is in that situation...If others can, so can you.... Goodluck.
2006-10-30 08:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not possible for your wife and family to visit you, there are plenty of ways for you to keep in contact with them and tell them how much you love them just as you've shared with us here.
Try to maintain as much contact as possible through pictures, snail mail, email, and phone calls (use phone cards!). Buy cell phones, and keep in contact 'real time' with international text messaging.
Eight months is a good amount of time, but it is not forever. Remain focused on your job responsibilities, and think about how much your temporary sacrifice will benefit your wife and family.
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-30 08:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Janx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyloo
its great to know that u love ur wife soo much she's lucky the only thng u can do is.......... dont loose ur job being emotional as u know its difficult to get job abroad....wat u can do is u have to prepare ur family visa n call ur wife there i know it mite take time but finally u guys can stay together....all d best
2006-10-30 08:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by arshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has she access to a computer to keep in touch with you? would it be possible for her to get one? if she cant,,write letters,,we love them,,,something always to look at when our hearts are lonely,,something to remind us we are wanted and treasured by one person,,something private between a man and his wife,,put pen to paper and keep your love alive,sometimes life can get in the way of love but hopefully these times are short lived and at the time,necessary,do what you have to but while you are doing it,,keep in mind someone back home misses you as much as you miss them and giving her what is in your heart,on paper,will make her glad she has you even if only in spirit.
2006-10-30 08:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad is also working far away frm my mom . distance relationships are great , once ur settled wit a job thn settle wit her na. all the best.
2006-10-30 08:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by miss_amal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't eat your cake and have
2006-10-30 08:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋