You're right to start with it has to come from within. The biggest thing is realizing that potential is there in the first place. Let's use art as an example.
When you're young and you're developing interests, you'll sit there for hours with a box of crayons. Now here's where it can go either way. You show your new master piece to your parents. What do they say? Is it something that's positive or negative. About six months ago I came home to find one of the walls in the living room had been drawn on by my two year old. I look at it and there's three faces drawn on the wall. each had two eyes a definable nose and mouth. For her age I think she shows potentential. I told her she did a good job drawing but that it should have been done on paper. That's where outside influences come in. It starts when you're young and I try to re-enforce positivly the things she shows interest in. I try not to give here to much grief because it was done on a wall. That's where a lot of peoples potential dissapear. No positive re-enforcment. And you do need that it helps keep you driven.
Older kids that develope interests in things with no positive feedback often drop it and that's sad. They could be the next great one at what they do but they and us will never know. What do you do in that case? Seek out those with similar interests and get the re-enforcement you need.
Now what do you do personally. It goes back to being inner. Now it's up to you to decide what to do with it. You found people that are willing to help you build up the potential you show but what are you going to do about it? Do you bust your butt and work hard to be the best you can be and develope your potential or do you half *** it and be mediocre?
It becomes a constant revolving door of internal and external re-enforcment's: "what do you think?", It's pretty good but next time try this and this", "Ok I've done this and this and I think it's better, What do you think now?"
Eventually you will reach a point that you won't need the external as much and it becomes more internal. That come's with gaining knowledge and exerience. There will always be times that you hit a wall and will need to go to someone but those times become farther and fewer in between.
There is also the possibility of needing people to tell you you're doing good and if that becomes the case you need to step back and really take a look at the thing you're doing and consider the possibility that you're only as good as people are telling you. You're only riding the external wave of compliments and not living up to your potential because you won't grow for yourself.
This as with everything you do in life is never as easy as you'd think it to be. This as with everything else in life is dependant on you. What, in the end are YOU going to do about it. Are you going to be happy at the end of the day because YOU made improvements with your life or because someone else made it happen for you. When you're old and gray sucking soup through a straw and reflecting over your life are YOU going to regret that decisions YOU made or did you do everything you could do to take the potential you had and make the most of it?
2006-10-30 01:16:43
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answered by Anonymous
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there is static electrical energy it really is discharged on touchdown. surely till now you gasoline up an plane you should floor the airframe to substantiate the gasoline nozzle doesn't spark going into the tank. This static cost is outfitted up by technique of friction contained in the air because the plane flies. because it isn't grounded, this would charge has nowhere to go. There are particular ends up in bleed this would charge decrease back into the air, the little wires trailing the wings and tail. finally those want to get replaced because the static arcs actual burn them off bit by technique of bit.
2016-12-05 08:58:50
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answered by Anonymous
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I dont know how to lersen, but i do know how to listen. if you fallow you inner vioce ALL your potential will be met and it will grow. Just believe in your self.
2006-10-30 03:30:45
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answered by psiboy13 2
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I feel it is very hard to be our true authentic selves...because there are so many emotional, psychological and spiritual blocks...we are our limitations...unfortunately not our potentials...
2006-10-30 00:51:37
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answered by avava9 4
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God is the only one who can show us are true potentials; we give them to Him and He shows how to apply them. John 15, Jesus said, "without me you can do nothing." People can succeed without God's help, but they are never satisfied.
2006-10-30 00:38:49
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answered by tigranvp2001 4
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Do what you feel most comfortable with, instead of going outside of your comfort zone just for the challenge...
2006-10-30 00:50:34
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answered by lee f 5
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I don't know. If I could ask G-D one question, that would be it...
I suppose by being true to yourself you would...
2006-10-30 00:33:05
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answered by Luv Thy Neighbour! 5
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We release our inhibitions and go for it!
2006-10-30 05:56:34
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answered by Anonymous
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go to the 4400 center...
2006-10-30 00:29:15
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answered by irini d 2
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by screaming ... or by makeing mistakes ,,,
2006-10-30 00:39:10
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answered by Anonymous
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