how do i tell my Dad?

Question

my dad has i girlfreind and i don't like going to his house for the summer because she is a ***** how do i tell him?

Answer 1

straight out! You should tell him sooner or later.He would understand.İf he doesn't ,then you have nothing to explain.

Answer 2

A) You build your amo before you shoot your mouth off, or you risk losing credibility.

By ***** (or was it ***) you could mean anything, so figure out exactly what you mean and how it impacts you. Is she fooling around on him, is she mean to you, or are you seriously just rejecting her because he likes her. That does happen and you would not be the first so don't feel bad.

b) When you tell him, if you decide to, use an even, low voice. It commands attention. Tell him calmly, when you two are alone and on a good "wave" together and tell him its important for you to feel that you are being listened to.

Just remember, if you throw tantrums or the like often about her, you are going to lose credibility. If she really is a ***** whatever that means, you will never convince him by behaving like a brat.

Good luck. I hope things work out for you, your dad and the *****.

Answer 3

If you have tried to get along with her and get to know her better and you still feel this way then you should tell your Dad that you're not comfortable with her. Explain why and how it makes you feel to be there. He should know how you feel...she's only a girlfriend right now...you should talk to him before it gets any more serious between them. You know, the girlfriend was probably uncomfortable too, not really knowing how to act around you. You may just need to get to know her a little better.

Answer 4

Phone him to say the following:
Hi Dad, you're girlfriends a *****, er go I'm out!

no seriously:
Hi dad, I'm finding it really difficult to be around (enter his gf's name here) so I think I'm going to stay home this summer ok.
Then talk to him about why you don't like her. Maybe you can sort something out.

Answer 5

If you don't like her because she is in your dad's life, that is one thing. Understandable, most kids don't like to see a "stranger" with their parent. But if she IS a beoch to you, then I would tell him why exactly, and confrunt the issue right in front of BOTH of them, so he can see the look on her face when you tell him, and not pull that sneaky soap opera style b.s. What I would do.

Answer 6

be honest with your dad.go and think why your dad loves that woman/lady...? and if you didnt find any reason ask him straight ehy he loves her.and see if you could like her or bear her and if you could not tell your dad why you dont like her.maybe after listening to your reason he breaks down his relationship with her.
so dont fear and ask your dad and be a good friend of him after being his daughter.if you be a great friend for him he will never need a gf like the one he has now.

Answer 7

Well he should understand you after all he is your father!!!Sit him down and just let it all out tell him its bothering you.You have to tell him sooner or later,i mean if you dont the next thing you no they will be getting married and shes your new mother!!!!!!!!!!!!!Good luck with everything!(",)

Answer 8

Just be honest with him. You have nothing to lose. Better for you if you get it out into the open.

Answer 9

tell him straight out.and you would not like to spend your summers with her, if your over 14 take him to family court and get new visitation rules, may one week in July,one week in August...........

Answer 10

just let him know how u feel!!
children should ALWAYS come b/f women!
if he doesnt understand then dont go let himk now that!
i hope everything works out alright!