Everytime my friend dates someone, her bestfriend always runs off with them, has sex with them than dates them. I told my friend she should ditch her, but she says she can trust her with everything else. She has this saying "mates before dates", but shouldn't you be able to trust your friends with anything? I know it takes two to tango, but its happened so many times, its just like shes setting herself up to be hurt.
2006-10-29 23:59:40 · 14 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well she will have to learn it the hard way. let her learn from her mistake and be there when she will need you
2006-10-30 00:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this a bad thing? Its like this, if the guy would have sex with the friend, then he can't be all that interested or commited to your friend, correct? Ofcourse I am. That slut is doing your friend a favor. When the a guy a comes around and tells the other friend to get lost and likes your friend, than that is the guy for her.
2006-10-30 00:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help your friend...she doesn't want the help, or to see what this "best friend" is doing, so let it be...next time she tells you about the same thing, tell her you're busy and politely leave. No need for you to get caught up in her drama, she already knows this "friend"is untrustworthy when she told you she can be trusted with everything except this.
2006-10-30 01:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..One thing you can be sure of ..she hasn't really cared for the guys she's been with.If you think about it,it's an awesome philosophy.She has an easy way of seeing what the guy is really interested in.She doesn't have to get to close and doesn't have to wait to long.Maybe she's keeping that friend around for more reasons than you know.She may just be a REALLY smart girl.Don't worry about her. :)
2006-10-30 00:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by jen_n_tn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never get this question. The person who is cheating is the guy not the girl. Ditch the guys and keep the girlfriend she is not doing anything wrong.
2006-10-30 00:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a friend. Why would being used by a girlfriend be ok? Dump the fake "friend" and find some real ones
2006-10-30 00:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by I saw whatudid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol tell her that she needs to choose her dates more carefully, if the right guy comes along he wont shag her... he'd say to her friend sorry but im with so n so!! so its not her fault... she should be thanking her friend for doing that since shes taking away all the easy jerks...
2006-10-30 00:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get rid of the best friend or pick better boyfriends. Good Luck to her.
2006-10-30 00:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl is no friend, ask ur friend 2 ditch that "friend" and try to look for new friends.
2006-10-30 00:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mermaid♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be a popluar girl.....the guys get 2 for 1...
She should find new friends.
2006-10-30 00:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by AL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell ur friend to loose the ***** cause she aint a true friend
friend suppose to look out for you not sleep with your bf
2006-10-30 00:26:27 · answer #11 · answered by levi 5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋