my mother in law is going though a really bad time at the moment, the love of her life is passing away and i want to do something to give her a smile please help
2006-10-29 22:48:43 · 11 answers · asked by mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think what would really really help is the knowledge that you are thinking of her and her plight, and you are concerned for her. So you could phone her every day at least once, just for a few minutes, ask her how she is, what's happening ... and tell her what's happening in your life. I think it would be good for her to be kept in touch with what's happening 'outside' of her immediate concerns, a sort of reminder that life goes on. But I think some of the other suggestions are also good. However, right now she probably doesn't want to leave the love of her life for any length of time.
2006-10-29 23:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for a day at the spa for the 2 of you to pamper yourselves and relax or if she doesn't want to leave her partners side at the moment buy her a nice card with a nice verse inside.
2006-10-29 22:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something that makes her feel special. Cook her a meal. Let her know you care. Buy her a hair do or a make over. You are a good soul.
2006-10-29 22:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a nice card and make her a nice gift of whatever she likes to eat, brownies or cookies. Let her know that you are there for her if she wants to talk or if she needs to be relieved.
2006-10-29 22:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by charmz21lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to lunch, this will give her some time away from the dieing, and enjoy your company. This will revive her energy to keep going...I know this is what my grandmother needed
2006-10-29 22:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she could do with a day ofpampering why not treat her to a day in a spar face treatments etc she could relax and have time to thimk as well
2006-10-29 22:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and involve her in your life so she does not feel lonely but give her some space when you feel she needs it.
2006-10-29 23:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sherzade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be with her .Take care of her needs & share all your hapiness with her.Ask her to give dissission on your problem /que?
2006-10-29 23:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by dhaneshwari b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know you are there for her, and when it's all over help her, she will recover specially with a daughter-in-law like you.
2006-10-29 22:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by twinsters 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cannot do something really effective but u can assure her that u will always b on her side!! she will feel better!
2006-10-29 23:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋