No matter how much love the people around mi give i do not noe how to recipocate...i wanna leave an everlastin memory of mi in their hearts esp my gf..i hope u guys can tell mi wat drug when mix with alcohol can cause death immediately...pls...thx...
2006-10-29 21:53:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
n u guys may think i m seekin attention la...ya living positive i noe...but i m nt fit 2 be a human la...so i hope u all can tell mi the drug's name...
2006-10-29 22:08:53 · update #1
u guys out there are willin to advice mi...thx...but when i have decided nt much talkin will help rite...i juz hope to get tat drug name...i m juz an asshole 4 all u guys noe...
2006-10-29 22:26:36 · update #2
Reciprocating love is learned and by your statement it seems as if you are thinking about that higher goal. That's great.
Holding a door open for someone coming through, smiling at a baby, giving up your place in line to someone older or has less groceries at the store are all really easy ways to show love.
It sounds like you are a male, angry, and thinking about taking your life. These are symptoms of depression, just like sniffles and a cough are symptoms of a cold. Men show depression by irritability and anger. Your thought patterns are negative and continue on "track"; this is like a toy electric race car going around the figure 8 over and over again. Many have battled that demon of depression for years, me included. But there is hope.
A medical doctor can help with these symptoms (anti-depressants can help) and a counselor (talking doctor) can help with challenging the negative thoughts or to figure out where they are coming from. Perhaps you had a problem with your parents, or lack of having them around (emotionally/mentally) when you were growing up.
A counselor can help you in your journey to answer your questions about "how to reciprocate."
In any case, don't take your own life to 'send a message.'
The philosopher John Donne said it best "No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main. If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of [property of] thy friend's or of thine own were. Any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.
What this all means, is that you are a piece of the whole, a part of all of mankind. If you were to go, we of the human race would all be less of what we could have been; we need your views on life, your thoughts, your gifts, your wisdom.
( If this answer has helped you a little, terrific ! God bless you as you go forward through life.)
2006-10-29 22:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to love yourself before you can fully love others. Doesn't seem like you do seeing that you are trying to find a way out. In regards to the world, it's the only one we've got. So if you're gonna live don't always focus on negative crap and don't resent those who are enjoying themselves because what else are they here for. You say you wanna leave an everlasting memory in peoples hearts? Do so by living a good positive life and impacting others while they are still alive. Choose life.
2006-10-29 22:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Book of Alcoholics Anonymous(not the group) has been known to cause drastic changes of thinking in individuals such as yourself(and myself). If I would have known the combination you are speaking of I would have never known the result of the solutions offered in that book. I personally that believe that persons of our mentality would be happy if they believed it was possible but most view happiness as an impossibility. I have found that no one can convince anyone of anything unless they are willing to believe it, but I would suggest that given your current mindset it may be worth a shot to look over that book. Once again do not confuse the book with the cult known as AA- you may have a chance to be happy with us lucky few that have managed to muster the courage to give it a try instead of wanting out so very badly. I bet that g/f would at least appreciate the effort. gl amigo.
2006-10-29 22:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not mad, but very unhappy, lonely and unsatisfied.
instead of being so selfish of thinking about yourself only, why don't you try to think that there is other people aswell in the world. instead of being even more selfish by killing yourself(which will cause disturbances to many many people around you and not), go and live your life, try to discover YOURSELF, go exile yourself in the mountains. you will see that maybe you will start changing your perpective and maybe growing up a little and being able to tolerate and APPRECHIATE life.
you wanna kill yourself, be my guest, but you are missing out mate.
just mix paracetamol with vodka or jack d's. but make sure to take a lot. oh, and let me know how it went. or all of us, we will be very interested in knowing whether you succeded in killing yourself or not. but with this mix you'll probably just fall asleep for two days or so! god knows. GET A GRIP MATE.
2006-10-29 22:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by ~maryjane~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking St.Johns wort tincture for depression and get some help via the people who love you. There are thousands of counsellors oout there. Do something more constructive than ending your life. Imagine how your loved ones would feel if you died! Good luck!
2006-10-29 22:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by anyamosaic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you grew up from a very unhappy childhood ?
You should change your mindset ... start anew.
If you keep being unhappy with people, the more they will stay away from you ...and this will further deteriorate your feelings towards them.
If you choose to live a happier life, no one will stop you ... be a volunteer and help out in charity homes ...you may get satisfaction and happiness helping others who needed help.
2006-10-29 22:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ignore what some ignorant an insensitive might post as an answer here-what jerks!
all your problems are effects of an even bigger problem that you might not want to face or admit-best thing to do is talk it out,with yourself and others and try to find answers to all this.
2006-10-29 21:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to come off that way of thinking because it does nothing......
Some people love you... You do the same for them...
Grit your teeth and see what happens when you try being the same way they are to you......
perhaps a trip to the doctor to discuss these problems will offer you sound advice and a bottle of some love pills....
but, that's what you need.....
Your sister,
Ginger,
gmcfayden@yahoo.com
2006-10-29 21:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you probably have a lot of pain inside. Get it out fast and be happy.
2006-10-29 22:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by veroniki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself and you live for your love ones.
2006-10-29 22:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Girl in The World 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋