MY WIFE ALWAYS OPPOSES WITH MY IDEA .Even when i am talking about weather and traffic . Or even when I state what she has told few days ago and now she has forgotten that this is her own idea.I guess she hates me.
2006-10-29 21:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by nader 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is a control freak, loose her!
2006-10-29 21:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I recommend you study humility.
Then, watch her try to oppose your total compliance.
She will agree more and more as time goes on.
Start asking for her wisdom! "Honey, tell me the weather, please?" or, "Dear, how should I dress for today?"
She needs to fill a void, and you need to be what fills that void.
This is why you feel that you haven't got a clue! So far, in your life, everything is all about YOU! Tone down the testosterone, start to watch and listen. You will discover a wonderful and loving wisdom, in both yourself, and in her!
It is NOT about who is 'right', it is about who is more mature in making the best choice! You both could attend some professional team building classes, together. You need to demonstrate leadership, through listening to the knowledge of the followers.
I genuinely hope this advice helps you both. I hope you have the wisdom to share it with her.
Sooner or later, we tire of the turmoil of the argument, and we look for a change, or we seek to escape.
If you are here and asking this, then, yes, it is that important.
2006-10-30 06:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you annoy her because you are too assertive with your ideas. Try asking her opinion before giving one of your own. You may find that she gives the opinion you would have given because she has to think of a sensible answer and not just oppose you.
2006-10-30 06:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ted T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is picky isn't she .don't talk to her for awhile and when she asks why tell it's useless talking to her because she argues about everything .if you can't share your ideas with her what's the point of being. there she will eventually drive you away.tell her your latest idea is to leave her and see if she argues with that
2006-10-30 05:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by clrdanlob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at times women do it - just as a conversaitonal style...does she do it to others too?
also, at times they do it just to show you the other side of the coin....however if she shouts or gets wild while doing it, then maybe she is a garrulous type...
2006-10-30 05:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Amit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you try to put your WORD's as VERDICT......that no one can aruge with....... ALWAYS TRY TO PUT YOURSELF AT HER PLACE AND TRY SEE FROM HER ANGLE WHY SHE DOES TAHT than you CAN UNDERSTAND BETTER THAN ANYONe ELSE CAN TELL YOU WHY SHE DOES SO........ n NEVER MIND HER WORDS as SHE CAN NEVER GIVe U A WRONG ARGUEMENT ... ok
2006-10-30 05:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by she_left_me_alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all wives are like that. she's not hating you. that is why you need your beer buddies
2006-10-31 04:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a woman !!!!
2006-10-30 05:53:40 · answer #8 · answered by hasenbeneasy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should please her with little stronger sex
2006-10-30 05:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by shukoor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋