Yeah my girlfriend told me this last night. I don't know what it means!! she told me questions like "what happen if i was pmsing and I broke up with u! would u take me back! Also she told me "do u believe in taking a break?"
I need help i dont know what to do? I dont know why she ask me that!? please and thank u all
2006-10-29 21:39:28 · 25 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like she is either getting ready to get real serious, or gonna dump you!
2006-10-29 21:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend has found someone else. She wants to know that if things don't work out with the new guy that you will still be there waiting for her and take her back.
Look what happened when Ross and Rachel took a break. Don't do it. Just tell her if she leaves then it is over for good.
2006-10-29 21:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is clearly trying to tell you that she is no more intrested in u and so she wants to have an affair with some other guy and then she will come back to you. she has asked wether u will accept her after she has an affair and returns to you. she wants to leave and have some fun with some other guy and then return to you. i suggest you talk to her and make things very clear. tell her what r ur expectations r,how much u love her and that what she is wanting to do is not at all good. ask her why she has planned to do this. whats wrong???????? ok bye i hope things get better with you. and yes never accept a girl if she has had an affair outside because she will never be urs truely from heart. such girls only play weith other feelings use them and have fun and then leave them. only if u love her truely then dont leave her otherwise let her go.
2006-10-29 21:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by preiwat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's pms-ing? as in Permissible Men Slaughter? i don't think so...
i mean, maybe she got really annoyed by something you do when she's undergoing her pms, but it is not a good enough reason to break you up.
there are some possibilities and some things that can be done:
1. as women are in their pms, it is true that we get annoyed easier than usual, but people don't break up with their boyfriend just for the pms. it sounds just weird. so try to handle her with delicate care (as in more tolerable to her) in her pms to avoid you getting dumb for her pms.
2. maybe she just lost her spark for you, but she's too scared that she might make a mistake, so she's trying to see what will happen if she broke up with you.
3. she might just literally need a break as in going out with her friends again, minus the boyfriend.
what you can do is:
1. talk with her. find out why she's asking that question, and make sure what the problem is. and talk nicely and calmly.
2. if it's just about she need her private time, give her sometime by herself, without the break-up.
3. if she just lost the spark, better broke up nicely first. if you guys are meant to be, then you guys will get back together somehow.
2006-10-29 21:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by tj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's testing you. Just tell her the truth. If you don't want "to take a break" in your relationship, let her know. If you don't like the games she is trying by asking the questions, let her know if you broke up that would be it, even if she didn't mean it. I think asking questions like that are silly games.
2006-10-29 22:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is testing the waters. I think she really wants a break to see how she feels, and if she does want you to know that you will take her back. Games really. My advise is to not play party to those kind of games, be straight with her and tell her that she is either honest about how she feels or you are not interested.
2006-10-29 21:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, Devid romance is parcel and part of a happy relationship,one thing I know for sure is that evry time one asks a question they have an answer already depending on the feeling that first struck them upon reception of an incident in question.I think right herenow the best thing would be, to go back and ask yourself whether you have reached to her expectation what kind of a person is she?demanding,understanding etc.but otherwise the are times when we force ourselves to believe non exist facts.JUDGE WHETHER SHE WAS ROMANCING YOU TO SEE IF YOU COULD STAND IT,OR THE ABOVE. to others its nice to state what your goals are the moment you start going out.so that you know which route is best for your relationship and if you can sustain it,otherwise I think one of the two is correct.she was romancing you or means it for a right person to reach her expectation.
2006-10-29 21:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Tangle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably testing waters here to see how you will answer or react to questions like that. If you are not comfortable in answering the questions let her know. Also let her know that it is not healthy for a relationship to have her thinking about questions like that for fun. Good Luck.
2006-10-29 21:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 23:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by templeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a test.
If you don't like tests (understandably), next time tell her you do believe in it if something happens that you won't put up with....or something along those lines and see what she does. Maybe you two are incompatible.
2006-10-29 21:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the girl is tired of being with u. she either needs to part ways with you completely or take time to see if she loves you.
it could be that she has someone else that she doestnt what you discover.
take it openly with her and you will know her meaning.
2006-10-29 21:51:28 · answer #11 · answered by fantasy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋