my mates say i hav greasy hair (which i dont) behind me and i dont like it sufers me to find it out. any one help or who is goin thru the same thing?? i just ignore evrything is this the right thing to do??
2006-10-29 21:36:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i probably get slagged off behind my back...but guess what? I DON'T CARE!!
2006-10-29 21:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
People that feel the need to constantly denigrate others tend to be insecure themselves, and girls sometimes accuse someone else of something that they are insecure about themselves - I'll bet that the girl picking on you is lacking in confidence and is trying to make herself feel better - why not try asking her directly "You know that I don't have greasy hair, why do you keep picking on me?" or 'I know you dont really mean that, why can't we be friends?' - Shell probably respect you more for sticking up for yourself - some of the best friends started out as enemies!
2006-10-29 21:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by ticket2ride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they aint yr true mates then!! i'm apparently slagged off at work all the time for 1 not doing my job 2 not caring 3 for looking like i've been dragged threw a hedge backwards etc etc to be honest i couldnt give a damn and ignore it as i know all the above is shite my true mates know me and know what i'm like the rest r arses! and they know i dont care which maybe makes it worse but i'm bigger and better than them so sod em and soo r u so just sit back and say balls i sure would :-) good luck dont let em grind u down x
2006-10-29 21:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by kj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you first hand don't ignore their behavior. People take that as if it's ok to talk about you because you won't stand up for yourself. For some reason it's called "human behavior" and people join in. Definately say something. Intelligent so as not to stoop to their level. Then find some new friends.
2006-10-29 21:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ignore the morons, re-define your ideas of what makes a mate, and then go out and find some real ones.
2006-10-29 21:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
people who talk behind your back and say hurtful things are not true friends.
unfortunately, standing up for yourself will probably make these dorks pick on you even more. that's just the way people are for some stupid reason. just ignore them and find some nice friends.
good luck!!
2006-10-29 21:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first answer (liz) has hit the nail on the head
people who talk about you behind your back are usually jealous of you in some way
ignore them...they may be "mates" but they certainly aren't "friends"
2006-10-29 21:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to get new Friends
good Friends never do this i know all about that is horrible you feel as if everyone one is talking about you
you r doing the right thing by ignoring it they are probably waiting to see your reaction
YOU REALLY NEED TO GET NEW FRIENDS
sorry if that offends if it were me i would bin them
2006-10-29 21:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it, or stand up for yourself and asked them why they are being such b.i.t.c.h.e.s.
Consider getting some true mates - because real mates shouldnt treat you like this and speak behind your back.
2006-10-30 00:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every one bitches about each other! it just depends whos not there at the time who is going to be bitched about! so if you arent there then they will ***** about you!
and yes ignore it there will only be a few ppl you will meet in this lifetime that will be proper friends!
2006-10-29 21:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by princesssp8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter who you are, once you leave a group (even for a minute) you get talked about. Just forget about it and enjoy life.
2006-10-29 21:43:41 · answer #11 · answered by Dilly the Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋