alot of girls these days cant even make eye contact much less respond to a hi. they all seem bored and uninterested why?
2006-10-29 19:23:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, I am a girl and I clearly never make or sustain eye contact with guys. I don't plan on doing that--it's a conscious behavior. I do not want to anymore. And it's usually the young ones I definitely ignore. What's the point? Isn't all they want sex? I am not satisfied with the current state of people expectations. Also, being asian, I am uncomfortable with people looking at me lasciviously (I mean, what is running through their heads?) and they acting all smirkishly around me. I mean, I had a hetero couple constantly smirking/smiling/looking over at me. The only thought that ran through my head was "they must have watched some asian porn".
I no longer trust anyone's mind! They've all been contaminated with damn porn! Well, I've looked at it in the past out of curiosity why men wer so damn hooked on them and I've really been disgusted and ashamed at what people are willing to do...
It's like I KNOW people are damn contaminated. That's why I can't look them in the eyes anymore. I KNOW what they're thinking... And I have no DAMN interest in their thoughts.
2006-10-29 23:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by summation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a girl and a lot of people tell me when they first met me they thought I was aloof. The truth is, a lot of the times they're just shy, like me. It turns out looking like you're bored when really you're desperately trying to think of something interesting to say or how you look or what you're supposed to do next...
So the trick is to find out whether the girl is really indifferent or if she's come down with a case of social phobia. But don't ask me how you're supposed to do that...
2006-10-29 19:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My brother in law asked the same thing. The girls doesn't show any interest in talking to him or even looking at him, that's not how it used to be. Of course he was talking about how it was in the 70s when he was young man and he's an old fart today. I think I know why the girls isn't interested anymore...
2006-10-29 22:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by --- 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have no freaking clue.
People have lost a lot of good things in this day and age, that people of the past once had/showed. It makes me really sad.
Why are there hardly any attractive girls where I am. If they won't talk to me, then they should at least be eye candy...man...
I always thought it was one way or the other, but I get nothing..
haha
2006-10-29 19:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Yeop 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
From the way you're asking the question. It's clear you already know the answer yourself, but you don't want to admit it. Do you think you should look for answers that give you an excuse to persevere?
2006-10-29 20:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with De bAN but i also think, girls have always been that way, especially if you go to a bar....although, that is really the only place to meet someone
2006-10-29 19:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their learned their grand-moms' lesson, if they appear interested and attracted to a man they will get heartbroken.
2006-10-29 20:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by rinah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's overkill...just too much sensory input all the time to everyone.
2006-10-29 19:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they cant be bothered anymore
i know i cant
sick of being used and abused
2006-10-29 19:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by squishy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋