ok, im 16, and ive had this friend that ive known since like 5th grade, and me and him have masturbated since we were in like 8th grade. we've talked about it for years, but about a week ago, we actually masturbated in front of each other and compared penis sizes and talked about it in person instead of like on aim or something...i thought it was pretty fun, and i want to do it again, although maybe next time i want to like jack him off and have him jack me off, and then do it again later and do other things like bjs or anal, just to experiment..we are both very attracted to women, so we arent gay, but i want to kno if its still gay to want this, and how i can get him to have me jack him off and have him jack me off
2006-10-29 18:52:46 · 19 answers · asked by yo yo 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well..i dont really want to give him a bj or anal, but it is something that would be interesting to discover..i mean when i think about giving him a bj, i cant really see it..its pretty disgusting, id just do it so i could get it...its all about me wanting to experiment
2006-10-29 19:05:27 · update #1
LISTEN TO ME! IT WONT BE HARD TO GET YOUR FRIEND TO DO THOSE THINGS WITH YOU... trust me! HE WANTS TO DO IT TOO! i recommend exploring www.jackinworld.com
go to the techniques section and read the comments. EVERYONE experiments with their buddies. dont even question your 'sexual identity.' dont listen to the idiots who say youre bi. dont even listen to yourself say youre straight, or you must be gay because blah bl ha blah. cant you just forget about all that and seek pleasure? who cares whether its a guy or a chick?
OH! also- to read other's experiences with sexual experimentation- go to www.anonymousconfession.com
look into the men's only archives. also look into the gay's only section... dont forget the archives with this one too!
best of luck, buddy.
2006-11-01 14:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by louie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you are exploring your sexuality and there is nothing wrong with that. Many people, explore same sex attractions and act on those attractions and it doesnt matter how old they are. Sexuality is blurred.. it doesnt start off where you are totally heterosexual or totally homosexual. There are actually a hell of alot of people who are attracted to both sexes, and then act on those attractions. Perhaps, you feel safer exploring your sexuality with your friend. There isn't anything wrong with exploration. Some people need to have label's and call it bisexual.
Some argue that if bisexual is to mean anything, it must have a strong definition - that of exhibiting bisexual behaviour, or at least the potential for it. Others feel it is more important to respect people's self-definition whatever it is.
Many people have reported that their sexual orientation has shifted over time; sexuality is dynamic, not fixed. For some people it may be a small shift, others a major change of lifestyle; but this does not make the points in between in any sense "wrong". Life is a continuous process, and few of us remain exactly the same over long periods of time.
I found a couple of site's that you might find interesting.
2006-10-29 21:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Orditz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets attracted to the opposite sex sometime in their life, maybe you like girls maybe you don't. Your curious if you wanna try new things go on ahead, and if you like it, do it some more. Just figure out what you are and what you like is most important at 16. Experiment dude, when hes jacking off walk to him grab, touch do it all to him silly, he wouldn't care hes masturbating in front of you, most likely he wants that from you. XD
2006-10-29 19:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Chicken Head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jacking off in front of each other is not gay, there was even south park episode about it.
its ur life so do what u like, just make sure ur friend has same thoughts now, so that he wouldnt get u wrong.
what about ******* and anal, wait till u have a girlfriend.
2006-10-29 21:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Magnetic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo yo, the next time you and your buddy are stroking together, do a little more comparing of your erections, then say something like "Hey, can I give it (his cock) a test drive?" or "...try yours for a change?"
*this is the key part* remove your hand from your rod, and look him in the eye, maybe a slight half grin on your face.
He will stop, and you take hold and give his a good squeeze, making him like the feeling, the idea of mutual masturbation. He should pick up on this, and find yours with his now-free hand.
GOOD LUCK, let me know if it happens!!
2006-10-29 20:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude your are definitely bisexual. I had the same experience your having,a lot of adolescents go through this. It is definitely fun when you can do that with someone you trust. Give each other hand & blow jobs and watch how much fun you guys have. Those were the good ol days for me.
2006-10-30 02:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by rottties2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 51 and still enjoy masterbating with my friends..Must have been fun to look at your friends penis....Explore everything with your friend otherwise you will always wonder what it would have been like to do it...No it ain't just a gay thing, it's a human emotion. Just reach out and touch it my friend and put it in your mouth...I guarantee it is delicious.....Both of you will enjoy it...
2006-10-30 04:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? don't let people lable you like that. you can be into whatever you're into. later on, once you've experimented a bit, you can figure out if you feel like you're straight or bi or gay.
it's totally natural to want to experiment, it's just that a lot of people don't have the balls to admit it!
as for your friend, it sounds like he wants to try things out too. next time you are in a situation like that, try it out. just don't be too upset if he turns you down, he may not be as comfortable with himself as you are.
and of course, if he turns out to be into it, you can get some experience and have some... fun!
2006-10-29 20:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by jumpoutjane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want him to jack you off? Dude, even if you're interested in women, then very fact that you'd want your male friend to do this to you, makes you bisexual, at the very least.
2006-10-29 19:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal for teenagers to experiment. Doesn't mean you are gay or bi. Just means you're curious.
Play safe and have fun.
2006-10-29 20:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋