I met a nice man, when i was younger, but our age difference was too much at the time, so we went our seperate ways, 17 years later, I met up with him again , and the feelings all come back, now im 33 and he's 51. Everythings been going well, we've become friends, had coffee , just enjoying friendship,.I told my ex husband that i met up with my old friend, and he's gone mad, saying that he had to pick the pieces up, after the last time. I am so confused. any advice please
2006-10-29 18:41:26 · 24 answers · asked by ssldavey2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your ex is your ex?? Why are you even discussing this with him anyway?? Does he tell you when he's meeting other women? I doubt it. If you like this other guy then go for it but keep it personal. I know if i started going out with someone and he was discussing it with his ex i'd be fuming. Good luck xx
2006-10-29 21:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can sympathise with him....in a way. just because he is your ex does not stop him caring for you as a person. If it is true he had to pick up the peices the last time with this man then maybe he does not wantto see the history repeat. AND if it did not work the first time with the other man why should it work this time? Give your ex a litle more credit here....after all he did mean something to you too.
2006-10-29 19:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/Jotgr
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-21 06:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex husband sounds a little jealously. I find even though you are divorced ex husbands still care about our feelings. He just doesn't want to see you get hurt.
Not that this new guy is going to hurt you again. 17 years later can change a person. Give him a chance you never know.
2006-10-29 18:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cringed after reading that. You were right about her when you initially broke things off 10 years ago. Keep following your gut. Think about it this way - this woman is married with kids - yet she so easily cheated on her husband with you - which makes me think of all the other countless guys she's probably had by now. I doubt you're the first. Run, don't walk, away from this woman.
2016-05-22 06:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex-husband is your EX...he has no longer any say in who you choose to see. He's probably suffering from dog-in-the -manger syndrome - he doesn't want to be with you, but he's damned if he wants to see you happy with someone else. You have suffered a broken marriage, I'm sure you're long due some happiness. If this man makes you happy, go for it - your ex will soon know what he's missing.
2006-10-29 18:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask ? Take no notice of your ex-huband, he is hardly in a position to advise you if he failed to make a successful relationship with you. Just do what any single girl would do, get out an meet people. Good luck.
2006-10-29 18:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave your ex husband out of your private affairs and follow your heart. Just be more careful this time around. You're smart, attractive, well adjusted, and a beautiful woman. Start living your life by telling yourself that everyday and everything will be fine...
2006-10-29 18:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you still seems to have the avertion more towards your old friend than your Ex-husband and so cunsult your Ex-Husband. I suggest you to forget about your EX and enjoy with your teenage favorite and make merry of your life
2006-10-29 21:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by hllt bang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off i dont get why your confused. its not rocket science. either your over your ex husband or your not. if you are great, then forget him. its your EX for a reason isnt it ? he has no ties or bonds on you, he might care for you still ; this is what it looks like, but who cares if you arent with him.
its not his business who you want to be with
2006-10-29 19:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋