last june my little sister died because of heart attack, she was just 16 years old. she was my best friend , and now I feel completly alone without her, I want to get some kind of conections with her, and I want some information about this matter, I'll be greatful if any one help me.
2006-10-29 18:12:09 · 24 answers · asked by mahsa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm sorry you lost your little sister, sweetie.
Sometimes our loved ones visit us in our dreams, sometimes we seem to "hear" them inside our heads. Other times, you may hear s song or find something special that makes you think she's thinking about you.
Connecting with her from "our side" through mediums and so forth is really a hit and miss. Some people seem to be fairly reputable, others are nowhere close. I wouldn't waste my hopes and dreams on hardly any of them - the best resource you have is yourself.
You could go to the bookstore and browse through the new age section and see what strikes your fancy. There are several books on communicating with loved ones, and how they communicate with us.
I really think most of the connections between our world and their world are initiated from their side, or by mutual need and desire on both sides...and she may be so enthralled by her new world (time is different there, I suppose) that she hasn't tried to make a connection with anyone in this world yet. And, you have to understand, she may never.
Keep her in your thoughts and prayers, but don't become obsessed. Live for both of you in this world, and have a wonderful life!
2006-10-29 18:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. The pain is almost unbearable to lose somebody you love, especially if it seems unfair, or they are young. But don't fall for it. The Bible says we die 'ONCE'.... Nobody connects with the dead, and there is no PROOF they do. Connect with the living and make your decision on where YOU will spend eternity. It is too late once you die. But YOU are still alive! Your grief is still very real and very strong and fresh. You may think it will never go away and you will cry forever. Your heart feels like someone put it in a vice. And the pain does NOT ever go away, but it hurts less and less. And in years to come, it will hurt again, many times, every time you talk about her, or a memory of her, but not so intensely as it hurts now.
2006-10-30 02:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Answer:
Well, go to big bookstore to New Age/Metaphysics area. There should be plenty of books on connecting with your loved one. Best to go through professional psychic or channel in your area, Be careful of a lot of fake ones out there who are after your money and just read off you and use general statements that sound specific but really aren't. Check out famous psychic Sylvia Browne as an example (link below).
Sometmes your loved ones will come to you through dreams. Life doesn't end beyond these physical bodies, the energy just transmutes. You've heard of those people who died on operating table and crossed and then came back? Most of them found the other side so heavenly, they didn't want to return to these gross physical bodies. It is said they can feel our mourning and that can keep some earthbound. In some cultures, like in parts of Inida, death is a celebration. Earth is just aschool with all these rules and lessons to learn through the duality of pleasure and pain.
Check out this website too. It has archives of radio talk shows. Scroll down to Dannion Brinkley "Talking to the Dead" http://www.newsforthesoul.com/moreshows1a.htm
And Discussions with the deceased:
http://www.newsforthesoul.com/moreshows1aa.htm
Free.
And check out Dannion's website http://www.dannion.com/
(beautiful music playing here) He had died and came back and wrote book "Saved By the Light" (bestseller). This will be good starting book for you.
2006-10-30 03:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by FeeFee le Mew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you won't be able to connect, as she has moved on to another realm. If you go to any of those sources as some very ignorant people suggests you do, you'll just be wasting your money and time, the ones "who speak" is not the spirit from your sister, it's evil entities, you need to find a different way to come to closure, it takes quite a while, I'm so sorry for your loss, I suggest you get some counseling and go to church, you will find a lot of comfort there. Take care
2006-10-30 02:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by You are loved 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some would say yes, others would say no. Myself I am undesided, i have seen alot of things that are unexplainable and I research odd things like ghosts all the time. Do i believe they exist, not sure, can you contact them, yes if they exist. Methods, transmediums (they usually use thier own body and let the spirit into it to communicate), ouija board (Never use alone and take extreme precausions as it is said to be very dangerous), Meditation and trance ( it is said when you meditate or go into a deep trance your mind and spirit get closer to the world of the spirits) Meditation or trance would be the least dangerous/expensive, mediums that are real cost alot and there are alot of frauds. Ouija can be dangerous. I would say learn divination/meditation either by trance meditation or water/mirror scrying. You can find alot of info on both on the internet. I have put some links on meditation methods, I am sure you can find many more.
2006-10-30 02:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are still connected by the memories she has left you. Cherish all the good memories you shared and speak to her whenever you want. She's in a very special place right now and she's always listening. I'm sure that if you ever have a major problem just try to explain it to her and she will teach you how to figure it out on your own. Everything is connected!!!! Good Luck!!
2006-10-30 02:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry to hear about your loss, but mediums and psychics will just rip you off. May i suggest you open your eyes and really look for something yourself you will be surprised at all the little signs she will send you to let you know that she is still around in some form...just keep an open mind and see what is there waiting for you to see.
2006-10-30 02:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by jenjen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im sorry to hear of your tragic loss that is so sad, i want to say there is a way to talk to your dead i would love to see my father who has died over a year ago but there is simply no way. dont do the whole john edward thing or a oiji board they are not what they say they are.
2006-10-30 02:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Wonderingplz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, no. Once they are dead, they are dead. The only way is like witchcraft and things of this sort but normally even if you do use this, it is the devil messing with your head.. not really your sister. There are reasons why we can't communicated with dead people. Sorry, I know somewhat of how you feel... I lost my dad when i was 11....
2006-10-30 02:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by cherry_kissez376 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Willful contact with somebody beyond the grave is impossible. Don't even try. It cannot be done. But------------as long as you remember your little sister and have her in your thoughts, in a way, she never dies. I have my mother and father with me all the time and all of my friends who have passed are with me still------------and their memories are very dear to me. In my mind, they live. In my mind, they cannot die. Their lives are entrusted to my mind and their souls are with God. I will see them again, but until then-------they live in my mind. Don't be sad. She would not want you to be sad. Treasure your memories. You are not alone for she still lives within you.
2006-10-30 02:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by price7204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋