how to stop such negative thoughts?
i wanna be free from her and now this?
like.. i always ask myself how come she's always better than me and always putting me down on my strong points makes me hate her even more since she doesn't know she's hurting me like hell.
2006-10-29 18:02:57 · 5 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
change the way you think and change your life. Stop focusing on the negative and create positive thoughts in your mind and your life will echo with happiness. It all starts with you!!! Regardless of who your enemy is or what she is doing should have nothing to do with your life or how you feel about yourself. Think success and be successful, think happy and be happy, think love and you will have love. Think jealousy, insecurity, hate, anything negative and your life will be miserable......Think life and how amazing it is and watch everything change in front of you.. I love where you are headed because I am already there and you're going to love the journey because it never ends.......
2006-10-29 18:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People who put other people down, usually have a weak self-esteem. In order to feel 'great' they have to belittle someone else. So, when you react to her insults, you just give her the satisfaction she's looking for. Ignore her completely. Still better, smile secretly if you see her. You must also start loving yourself, then it will be easy for some boy to love you too. We are what we think and if you think you are great, others will think so too. Try it and see what I mean.
2006-10-29 18:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're hurting yourself by letting this get to you. Half the time people don't know that you hate them and the other half, they just don't care. When you walk by, do it with your head held high and never bat an eye if you hear her speak negatively.
2006-10-29 18:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Wing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a sitcom episode... I think I saw this on Happy Days once...
2006-10-29 18:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel jealous that you have an enemy. :-(
My advice would be to ignore her and get on with your life. "The best revenge is living well."
2006-10-29 18:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋