how do you get over your mothers death. its been 1 year and i still cry all the time i miss her so much?

Answer 1

You don't get over it, you just keep living. It has been 2 years since my father passed and I still feel the loss every day. I am sorry for your loss and wish you the best.

Answer 2

Sorry about the loss of your mother. In December it will be 3 yrs. since my mother passed. I believe the first year is the worst. Coming up on the 1st yr. mark, I started having anxiety attacks and didn't even know what was happening with me until my doctor told me. So basically, I had stopped crying on the outside, but on the inside I was still a wreck. The only thing I can tell you is time, time, and more time. Don't rush yourself and don't let anyone tell you when it's time for you to stop grieving. There is no love like a mothers love and all I kept feeling was "no one is ever going to love me like she did." I still do feel that way and I miss my mother desperately, but I'm better now. I truly am. Time heals all wounds and you will get through it...just give yourself time. I hope what I have said has helped in some sort of way. God Bless You!!

Answer 3

That's a hard question to answer, being that I haven't lost my mother, I think losing your mother is the hardest thing anyone will ever go through, Know that it's OK to cry, but you should also laugh, meaning try to remember the good times you had with her. There is no rule on how long you can cry after we die, If you need to cry every day than cry. I lost my grandmother about 3years ago and I still cry about that, were I live it's easy for me to go visit the cemetery and talk with my grandmother , tell her about my day and so on, so my be try visiting your mothers grave will help. Just like I said take all the time you need, pray about it, ask God to make this easier on you, trust me God still answers prays. Good Luck , and God Bless you.

Answer 4

Well hun I lost my mother 2 years ago and my father three and a half months after my mom died,so both of them so close together ,and I will tell you,some days it seems easier then theres some days it is still so hard to deal with,I live 2 houses down from where they lived and I was raised as a child and theres days I won't even go out of my house cause I can't deal with it and then theres days im fine and can look up there and be fine,I am telling you from first hand experience you will go through this for years to come,like I said somedays its easier than others,and if you need to cry then cry,theres nothing wrong with that at all,Im just fortunate that I have a wonderful husband that helps me when I need him,I was as close as can be to my parents,so I totally understand what you are going through and I feel sorry for you,but it will get easier as time goes bye,but their birthdays,anniversarys,the day they passed is all very,very hard for me and it usually starts really getting to me about a week before any of these things come around,but if you need someone to talk to, your hospitals should have a grief counseling group you can join and you will be able to talk to others thats going through the same thing we are,and you can talk to them and learn and vice versa,I am really thinking about joining a group myself at my local hospital here in town.But good luck to you in the future and I sure hope it gets easier for you ,It just takes time.
God Bless You.

Answer 5

I think that it would take me a long time to get over losing my mother! I went through separation anxieties when she moved to another state for 1/2 the year. Time is the only thing that will heal a broken heart! Try to remember the good times and try talking to her like she can hear you! Good Luck!

Answer 6

Ask your mom. Talk to her when youre alone.
Smile to yourself and embrace her memory with spiritual arms. Take her with you when you go shopping and such and think of what she might tell you wouldnt look good on you and smile to yourself. Your loved ones are always with you. Where you live. Put some of the things that remind you of her away out of sight and bring them out less often and just have a good cry only once in awhile. Eventually, all you'll need is the sweet memory in your heart and mind and the strength to conquer each day, and to live the life you've dreamed of and know that she's smiling at you.
:) Peace!

Answer 7

If you were that close, you will never get over it, but you will in time learn to live with it. you will always miss her, and you need time to grieve, but also know you can not allow it to consume you, I am sure she would want you to live a full happy life. I would ask God to fill the loneliness you feel with joy and beautiful memories. And remember you are not alone, God will bring you through this, if you just ask. I am so sorry for your loss, and I pray you will allow yourself to come to a place where you can celebrate your Mom's life and not grieve her death.

Answer 8

you know what? time never heals. Its true coz its been 6yrs since my mom died of lung cancer but I still cry every night. There is no day that I never think of her. It was traumatic that I can still actually feel the pain in my heart. I tried to cope up with the loss with the help of my friends & relatives but I only got temporary relief. Professional help only made it worst. Now, I learned to go on with my life without getting over my mom's death but rather living with it. You can do it, just believe you can.

Answer 9

I know what you mean, my father just passed away March 22,06
and none of us has gotten over it and we will never get over him.
But I talk to him when I feel that I need to say something to him.
We go to the cemetery when we can. We stay there for a few
hours. We can't go all the time because he is buried in L.A.,CA.
and we live in Fresno, CA.. As for your self you can go to the
cemetery and visit her any time you want. Spend time with her
even if she is in heaven, she'll be looking down on you listening
to every word you say. People say day after day you'll forget
but what we have for our parent is much to special to forget.
Write a journal every time you want to talk to her, especially if
you can't make it to the cemetery. It's okay to cry, no one will
judge you for crying. Take Care..

Answer 10

I'm so sorry.... I know it is hard; my mom died 10 years ago, and I think about her daily. At the one year mark, it was still a kind of fresh wound and I was still feeling very sad. As more time went by, it was the happier memories that stayed with me, and of course I still miss her terribly. My dad had died nine years before her, as well.
All I can say is keep her picture out, think of her positively when you think of her, and don't hide your feelings.