I broke off my engagement last week and I don't know how to deal with the pain. Suggestions?

Question

Our relationship kind of deteriorated after we decided to commit. But anyway, we're separated now but the thing is..I can't stop thinking about him. I can't stop reminiscing. I can't concerntrate at school or work or church..or anything. I suppose it's normal to be a little distressed but I don't know how to get my mind off this. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Allie

Answer 1

The only suggestion I can give you, is to give it time. You got very comfortable and it is hard not having him now. Just try to keep yourself occupied to other stuff, that is what I had to do. I went through basically the same thing you did. As soon as I got the ring our relationship just went down hill. We were together for 2 yrs and it was lonely when I broke it off. Like I said, just do stuff to keep yourself occupied and time will fix things, that is the best advice I know. Whatever you do though, is do not find someone else right away to fill that void. It will fix nothing except maybe get someone else hurt. I know, I did that too and it helped for awhile until I broke up with him, then I was right back where I started from. Just take some time and it will get better, I promise. Good luck!

Answer 2

Whenever you feel like reminiscing or missing him, remind yourself of the reason why you broke off the engagement. It's one big reason i suppose... otherwise you wouldnt just call off the engagement.

Answer 3

Revow yout engagement.

Answer 4

i mean you call it off - you broke the engagement
maybe u were just not ready
no point crying over it.
just look into the mirror

Answer 5

Go out and have some fun....it will take your mind off of it

Answer 6

go out get drunk get a well hung guy (like myself ) f.u.c.k him like there is no tomorrow and all of your worries will go away..... its time to move on lady

Answer 7

go on vacation