then why is it that attractive women are the ones mostly cheated? is there a very good explanation for that?
2006-10-29 15:45:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
(this is according to my own observation)
2006-10-29 15:45:29 · update #1
okay, cheated on!
(i think that's very clear already)
2006-10-29 15:51:36 · update #2
thank you, Kevin, for the invitation to chat. :-)
2006-10-29 16:02:57 · update #3
Yes...there is an explanation its called the "B" factor...as in ***** factor. They think they can get any man to fall in love with them and when they find someone decent they think they can do better cus they are attractive and everyone knows when a pretty batts there eyes they can get stuff free and they like the attention they get from men.
But to answer your first question no.. I have seen pleanty of fat ugly girls with guys who seem to love them. The question should be and does a man have to be attractive to get a girl.. and that answers yes...cus I'm not ugly and have a great personality and sence of humore but yet I'm alone.
well if you wanna chat sometime contact me.
2006-10-29 15:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nope. A woman doesn't need to be attractive and beautiul to find true love.
Beauty may attract, but in the end it's personality that clinches.
The reason why attractive women have been cheated many times, is because of the man. The man thinks that since he can have one attractive woman, he can have another. He wanders, and finds someone else.
It happens, I guess.
2006-10-29 15:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by AxisofOddity 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know that this sounds very cliche, however, beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, and there's a someone for everyone! As for why beautiful women get hurt more...hmmmm... well, you have to wonder how "beautiful" they really are, and if they don't bring it on themselves? Also, those women that are considered "the most beautiful" are VERY high maintenance, and as such are highly superficial. I guess at the end of the day you get back what you put into a relationship, and if you didn't put anything in to begin with then how can you expect to get anything out of it?
2006-10-29 22:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by moloch2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I think is a person is true to themselves and they will have the best chance of finding some one who likes them as they are. I don't think it is just the attractive people that are cheated on but if you are depending on your looks to keep your relationship together then it's doomed from the start.
In my opinion the best relationships are those that are built on friendship first. Most of the time the physical attraction just kind of wears off after of a couple of years and if you have nothing but that then the relationship will fail.
2006-10-29 15:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Bruthaman 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi, first sorry as it is obvious you have been hurt, but first no not really, I know that sounds double sort of, but I am a woman, I had alot of guys hitting on me, but it was so obvious it was for the wrong reasons, that wasn't what I wanted, so I just took things into my own hands, I picked my own perfect mate, I have always gone by a persons eyes, this likely sounds corny but you can see to the soul so to speak, if you look into a person's eyes, try it, and also you have to know yes you are beautiful, but no matter what kind of pkg you come in, remember it is what is on the inside that is going to really matter in order for your relationship to last, oh just to let you know, we are happily married, and I know for a fact he does love me as I him, and we have complete trust in each other, I hope you too find this it will make you feel so much better, also if he did it once he WILL do it again, just my opo but I care and hope you are happy!!
Hugs!
2006-10-29 16:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Carole B G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question reminds me of an old song - If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, find yourself an ugly girl and make her your wife! LOL
I think you have to be beautiful to the right person, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have known some beautiful and handsome people in this world that look like sh!t after they open their mouth! There is more to beauty than a skinny body, long hair, and a pretty face.
2006-10-29 15:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, a women does NOT haveto be attractive and/or beautiful to find true love. actually, i think it's the opposite. normal-looking people, i think, most find true love, because...
well, take celebrities as examples. they're beautiful, right? they're attractive, right? they're handsome, they're hot, they're cute... they're everything... and yet so few find true love. most marry many times because of their husbands cheating on them.
i think the reason why most attractive woman are cheated is because, well first of all, men don't really look at their personality before they look at their attractiveness. and if you marry quickly... before your husband has a good chance to really GET your personality, well then, eventually, he's GONNA get it, and if he doesn't like what he gets, then he'll try to ease his heart with another girl.
normal-looking peopel find true love because they love each other for who they are, what's on the inside, and not just their outer cover.
but yes, attractive/beautiful people find true love too, but so do normal-looking people.
i don't know which one really rules the "who finds more true love?" balance, but i think it's just about equal.
most beautiful people marry quickly, thinking they've found true love, but end of getting cheated and get divorced.
some beautiful people marry quickly and find themselves forever in the true love they had always dreamed of.
some beautiful people marry after a long time and find themselves being cheated, while others find true love...
it's just simply a matter of who you marry, and if your partner likes you for who you are.....
sorry...
hope this helps!
2006-10-29 15:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as an older woman living in the South, It is my observation a woman only needs to be thin and fairly attractive to get a man. If she acts like a b*tch or a whore, she'll be grabbed up even quicker.
2006-10-29 15:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
As long, as the women is beautiful inside and is not lookinf for Prince Charming but something real, loving and caring for their rest of their lives.
2006-10-29 16:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No a woman doesn't have to be. If u be urself and act urself then u will find ture love! Don't listen to wut other ppl tell (that is if it's like this or course lol) u dont have to wear a size 0 or a size 5 to be attractive u dont have to have HUGE breast or w/e jsut be urself!
♥
Seta
2006-10-29 15:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Li 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋