Hi, every day I look around in this world and EVERYONE else has friends but me! It's just not fair. I've been to many places in the U.S. and also to Germany, Austria, Switzerland, and Mexico. And in all those countries everyone else has friends to talk to, eat with, and hang out with, and that makes me VERY lonely and sometimes I feel like killing myself because of that...but I won't because I have a family that cares about me. I was born with a syndrome that caused me to get a neck fusion, hence I probably look "asymmetrical" to most people, and probably like a monster to some. I TRY to talk to people and be friendly, but NO ONE keeps the conversation going. Right now, my only "friends" are literature (i.e. I like reading fictional novels), beautiful scenery, and nanotechnology/digital logic (yes, I am a bit of a nerd, but that's not why I have no friends). How could I handle this situation, knowing I have probably 50-60 more years of solitude left on this earth?!?
2006-10-29 15:36:38 · 12 answers · asked by DavidausZueri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ill be your friend
2006-10-29 15:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Glen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey.... you're just like me!! i was born with a neck fusion too, as well as an S-shaped scoliosis. i never thought there'd be someone else out there like me. well... NOW you have a friend. :)
as to your question, maybe it's the way you approach people. if you keep a positive attitude and continue to be friendly, no matter what you do, you're bound to have friends one way or the other. i used to think that way too... i used to think that life's unfair, that i was given this accursed grotesque figure. i was teased and bullied as a kid, but i still gained friends because... well i dunno, maybe 'coz i was a bit funny... or clumsy... or i smile a lot. anyway, keep your chin up and try not to think negatively about yourself.
there's an old saying... "you can't expect others to love you if you don't love yourself first".... well it goes something like that. :)
2006-10-29 23:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky the Kid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i read this question i feel lonely for you. why not join some frienship club..,..do you look doo.. make use of it and be friendly.. if you are not looking good use your wit but dont boast. be smart , courteous and kind to people, make it natural in doing it.. Be sweet too...Physically be neat and tidy..Join seminars and training, then meet friends there. I could be your friend too..This is my email add: prettylittlecutebaby@yahoo.com Email me if u want to make friends w/ me. Keep smiling and the world will smile w/ you!
2006-10-29 23:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by jane u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try joining an organization, a Greek or social group. It may fill the emptiness
2006-10-29 23:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by miseducated 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay in there try and join a club doesnt matter what it is if you can share some of your intrest with other people then you will be able to spark a frienship that away but by staying in and being a prisoner of your own house your never going to be able to see what you are capable of until you come out of your shell and actually try at it. they are not going to come to you, you are going to have to go to them so my advice join a club that you are interested in
2006-10-29 23:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by kruiz1100 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Volunteer.
Do things to help others. Be a loving, caring person. Your thoughtfulness will shine through any disability people may see and life will be good.
2006-10-29 23:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're so sad, I'm sorry. Do you have any friends from work? Why don't you try volunteering in your community? Or go online to meet friends...it isn't all about dating on those sites.
2006-10-30 00:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by itsonlyme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i find it really hard to make new friends because i was a self consious wreck, i told myself there was something wrong with me, after many years convincing myself there was nothing i found something i was interested in that evry1 else was and i started to make friends. youve just gta put urself out there
2006-10-29 23:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by L-M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know...i feel the same way i just find ways to get around it...life is not just about having friends but having fun and u can have fun without friends...if i may ask do u have ADHD or ADD...i have ADHD and with that disorder it is hard to find friends if u need anything let me know!!
2006-10-30 00:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by HottielesbianTX 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hehehe...;)
r u a capricorn?? sounds like ur zodiac sign is CAPRICORN..
anyway, friend sometimes is good & sometimes is not..
u r not lonely, u just wonder why u dont have any best friend surrouding u.. dont worry.. little david..
good friend will comes to u.. someday..
& here i m..
2006-10-29 23:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just need someone to look deeper in you because a friend doesnt care what u look like they care about who u are =) ill be your friend
2006-10-29 23:41:12 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋