I woke up in the middle of the night and my husbands butt was hovering over me. I got a good look and saw some feces coming at my face. I jumped out of bed real fast. I asked him what he was doing and he wouldnt answer me. I am afraid to go sleep in my own home, what do I do?
2006-10-29 15:28:13 · 23 answers · asked by BIRTHA W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sOUNDS LIKE HE NEEDS HELP MENTALLY,I KNOW I WOULD BE SOOOOOOO ANGRY HE WOULD HAVE TO LEAVE. I THINK YOU NEED TO LET HIM GO TO SLEEP FIRST NEXT TIME...CATCH MY DRIFT! A BUTT FOR A BUTT AND A FACE FOR A FACE!
2006-10-30 14:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by bipolar_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ascertain whether he has a parasomnia. If he was sleep-walking (or sleep toileting as the case may be) he may have thought he was in the bathroom,and not over his wife's face.
Not answering could be shame at being caught in something so immature (although, he would have been "caught" anyway when you woke up) or it could have been not having a clue at what was going on and a response to being suddenly awakened from the sleep-walking event.
On the other hand, if he has no parasomnias, and this was an intentionally disgusting and might I add ABUSIVE thing to do, I would say it is time to get out. You have a right to be able to sleep safely in your own house.
2006-10-29 23:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by peacedevi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite obvious that you didn't sort out certain sexual issues before you got married.
Folks get married for all the wrong reasons, but a man who would crap feces on his wife's face? This is someone that obviously cannot love his wife. Would he crap feces on his own face? Would he like it if you crapped feces on his face?
The world is a sickening place I tell ya.
You're going to be in for more abuse and filthy conduct by this man. He's probably already cheated but will never be honest with you. You're going to find out the hard way.
Good luck.
Sighs...
2006-10-30 00:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by KimIsland 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is really funny for me but hard to put myself in ur place lol..dont mind me..i think ur husband has a serious mental disorder..i mean no husband would do this kind of thing to his wife even if he hates her to core!!
I better ask u to take him to a doctor and get to know whats wrong with him may be..he is suffering some rare disease..instead of assuming that he did it on purpose..
The husbands may beat their wife..do all kind of other things..but its wierd of him doing this...who knows he may b suffering some disease..i wish i could help u but i m not a doc
2006-10-29 23:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy Maklina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for you. this is about the nastiest thing I've ever heard of! it sounds like he has a sick and disgusting fettish. he's also totally disrespecting you! you should wait until he's sleeping and shove a plug in his butt!
seriously though, he owes you an explanation. if he doesn't give you one, I would not spend another night in the house with him.
I'm not sure I would even with an explanation!
I'm mad at him for you!
2006-10-29 23:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What? Sounds like he got a problem! If I had kids, I would be worried about them! You should have picked up a lamp and knocked him upside his damned head!! THAT IS SICK!! I could see if you were into that....but just to do it while you are sleep? What kind of **** is that??
2006-10-29 23:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep the toilet paper handy. Maybe he was sleep-goingnumbertwo. it's a rare disorder, and needs medical intervention.
2006-10-29 23:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by exaluva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be a really depressing wife for your husband to consider crapping on your face. Or he might be just donig it in his sleep!
2006-10-30 00:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have put his *** out right then and there, that's just nasty, he was trying to **** on your face, theres no way he would be allowedback in my bed if I were you.
2006-10-29 23:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound to me that he has some kinda problem going on and needs HELP . Don't need to put up with that one bit. By the way uckk
2006-10-29 23:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Blue 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋