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My belief is that married men or women who watch ****, secretly or openly, are already cheating. I don't believe our bodies are meant to be shared with anyone except our spouses.

**** is degrading and disgusting. Would you be proud to show your grandparent what you are looking at? Would you still be looking at it, if Jesus was in the room with you? He is, you know. Time to check yourself.

Peace.

2006-10-30 15:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 3 1

Married men watch *** movies and pictures secretly because there is no place in the house to watch such things. Some wives may not like it and may not allow their husbands to watch.
If there are grown up children and other members living in the house it is not advisable to keep such films at the house. This does not mean that they cheat their wives. Seeing a pornographic film has nothing to do with it. AT the same time, to cheat a wife there is no need to watch porno films. There are wifves who cheat their husbands and do you think it is because these wives watch porno films. Cheating, if you can call it like that, happens only when a situation develops and suit both the partners. My advise to wives is that do not imagine any of these things and it can mentally harm you.

2006-10-30 14:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by JP 5 · 1 0

Married men that watch **** usually do it to give themselves a higher sense of arousal. It does not mean that they would secretly cheat if given a chance. A man that cheats will probably do so because he cannot get what he needs from his wife. So - i know this isnt what you want to hear - if the woman in the relationship can't satisfy her man, it could lead to the man finding someone else to satisfy his needs and desires.

2006-10-29 15:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by LebaneseLili 2 · 1 1

well i don't know if they would cheat. i don't know why some ppls answers here are blaming the woman for not satisfying their man. This that a justification for cheating. If he is cheating thats his problem and he has to own up to that. i personally don't watch pornography. i think its demeaning and i won't support it b/c i don't believe in it. do u like the fact that your man gets ***** watching two other ppl having sex and then he comes and seeks you out to satisfy him? well you know what hes thinking of when he is making love to you. he most likely isn't thinking of you. i know ppl say that if u have a problem with the **** that you are jealous and insecure but i say that you aren't. there is nothing wrong with you if u don't want him watching it. You are just setting a standard to which u can live with.if it makes you upset that should be enough for him to stop your feelings should be more important than his ****. good luck to you.

2006-10-29 15:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You should be worried if your HUSBAND is watching **** because whatsoever a man does in his mind he is committing in his heart and it's only a matter of time before the desires become fertile.

Why didn't you discuss this before you got married? These are issues that should be gone thru before you get married because now you are wondering, there is distrust and it's going to lead to many more serious issues in your marriage that always leads to divorce.

It appears that most couples marry for many reasons that are unhealthy instead of really addressing issues that can truly lead to divorce and misery soon after marriage.

If he's looking at ****, he's also visiting strip clubs, and keeping his mind dirty and what is he doing when he's not with you?

You have many issues to deal with and all I can say is we live and learn...some however don't listen and are hard-headed...they learn the hard way; they are the ones that must experience misery and pain that ruins their mental stability and then they walk around complaining.

I hope things work out positively one way or the other for you; it may be that you will wind up in divorce court. You just pick up and take it from there. If a man truly loves his wife he doesn't seek out pornographic and worldly fixes for his sexual pleasures. When a man lacks that true love anything is possible.

Bless you.

2006-10-29 15:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by KimIsland 3 · 6 2

married men watch **** in secret because they just wanna get off without having to be "romantic" and because some wives freak and get jealous. MEN MASTURBATE---but so do women.
Watching **** does NOT mean he wants to cheat or would.
Some wives need to figure out that making love all the time can be BORING sometimes a fast quickie or a down and dirty romp is needed.
SOME men need to have the balls to ask for what they want.

2006-10-29 15:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 1 2

Im married and I dont look at **** secretly. My wife knows all about it.

But for some reason women like you get jealous when your men look at **** thinking that your body isnt good enough and your men need something else. Guess what? Men fantasize about other women to break the monotony of sleeping with the same woman, but our hearts are still with the one we love. Get over the Jealousy.

2006-10-29 15:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Paul S 4 · 0 3

**** is highly addictive. It eventually ends up in acting out in one way or another.

However, NOT all men/husbands do such things.

**** is a serious evil in our society. It would not exist if poeple didnt buy it.

2006-10-29 15:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 1 0

Absolutly not. Watching **** is healthy for a relationship becuase when your husband watches **** is staying at home. He is not leaving the house and having an affair. He watches **** because he loves you and he does not want to cheat on you with another woman.

2006-10-29 15:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by potential tourist 2 · 0 3

No, it just means he likes **** and doesn't feel comfortable watching it in front of his wife. The problem here isn't the ****, its the wife who makes him uncomfortable, but I digress. It does not lead to cheating.

2006-10-29 15:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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