i am 19. i feel that all these years of my life had been wasted. i could never be a good student and thus i was also a failure as a daughter.today i feel lonely.i dont have any friends with whom i can share my feelings.this is affecting my studies very badly.please tell me how to get over this feeling of loneliness.
2006-10-29 14:57:33 · 5 answers · asked by aqua 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your years of your life is not wasted...you are not a failure because you did not do well in school.... you learned enough to live a good life.. you can read, write and other things....
i suggest you take a assertive class and feel better about yourself...also make a list of the good things you can do.. i bet the list will be a large list..... in your community there are many things to volunteer your time and energy...check on craigslist in your area, in the volunteer section, pick something you will enjoy and go for it...you will meet people there and they will like and respect you...you deserve to be liked and respected. in your area there are recreation centers that offer many types of activities that you can join for a modest fee... check it out and look .........you will find that you have more to offer than you think.... also churches have young adults socials...check that out.....[my wife, sandy, is a good listener and you can email her at churchonthewayseniors@yahoo.com] and she is always good to chat with via email....
or you can email me also [walterknowsall@yahoo.com [ i am a senior and no personal questions would be asked...]
take care and know that you are a good and special woman....
2006-10-29 15:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by walterknowsall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to stop thinking that good grades are for your parents and their acceptance of you. Their disappointment is that you probably dont seem to care about it. Could your grades have been better? Who are the grades for? Ultimately? For you!!
Of course!! Youve spent many many years in school and since you are 19 you feel like youve not accomplished anything? What are you supposed to have accomplished at 19 given your circumstances and environment. Be glad that your young!!! Oh my gosh...be glad you are young!! You have energy, health and vitality that you'll never ever have in 10 20 yrs from now. You'll have a husband and kids and a house to take care of and its a 24hr/7dys week lifestyle. It's something you can look forward to, but for now...you only need to look after yourself. Pamper yourself, if you cant travel, read books that take you places, romance novels that give you a romantic safe love affair, learn a new language, learn to sew....it's all about you dear...its always been all about you these past 19yrs...cuz you made it this far, didnt ya? Enjoy your youth!! I'd sure do it all over again, and I wouldnt care if I didnt know a thing!! Just begin your life anew, fresh, every day. Life's a roller coaster, kiddo, get on it!!!! ;)
2006-10-29 23:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl!!! stop that.
You are having a bad time now, but sweetheart you have to see it will NOT always be like this.
Some people are not good at school..o.k. and some have a hard parent to deal with..I just can't believe your such a bad daughter.
Stay on here, and answer some hard questions for some people...help them out say for the next ten mins...
Then! tell me you are no use to anyone...Because you are!
Make friends on here!...I am sure there are some gals who can chat to you...Once you feel you do have a few friends...things will GET BETTER....You can always, help someone on here.
2006-10-29 23:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are feeling that i am alone frist dont think in way to nagative, second hold your self at oppsite side againts making a any opinion for anybody, third deside a goal at this age about studies & start a work to filfull & achive goal when you achive a goal at end of time you have a lot of friends, fourth frandly ask your friends about your nagative side & cure this
i hope you can creat a very chearfull life
2006-10-29 23:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by ashishv_patel 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is never too late to start in life. You are still young. Make good friends. Learn to care for them. You will start enjoying life.
2006-10-30 02:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋