2006-10-29 14:12:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd say see ya! If he's lying about that he's lying about more!
2006-10-29 14:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is right up my alley honey! My first husband had 2 ex-wives, and my current husband has an ex-girlfriend/baby mama. I can tell you that ex-wives/or baby mama's are no picnic to deal with. I'm also an ex-wife so I have had experience on both ends. It depends on so many dynamics in the relationship between the two of them and whether there are kids involved and what the circumstances are. Why does she drive you nuts? If he is talking to her and lying, you should be asking questions. Anytime your mate has to lie to you, should be a concern. Is it because(like most men) he just fears your reaction? Or is there something more? I would really like to have you post more info so I can give more from my own experiences. It's just that so many factors come in to play, I would hate to rush to "judgement". Please post more info. I bet with all my"ex's" I've gone through something similar.
2006-10-29 14:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do they have legitimate reasons to talk? Have they been two of the rare lucky ones who actually ended their marriage as friends? Do you make it difficult for him to communicate with her over valid issues because you're insecure? Maybe his lies are simply attempts to avoid arguing over nothing. Do they have children together.... if so, that right there changes everything.
I have a child with my ex. He calls quite frequently if he has something he wants or needs to talk about, even if its just to chat ... he'll even stop by if he's in town. It took a long time for us to get on friendly terms again. There's nothing secretive, deceptive, or slightly inappropriate about it, and I don't find it necessary to inform my husband of every conversation I have with the man. Unless he's home when it happens, its generally not even mentioned. Even if my husband had a problem with it.... that would just be too bad. I have a responsibility to my son AND to his father... and I intend to live up to it.
2006-10-29 15:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is SHE driving you nuts...?
Your husband is the one lying to you....do you actually think his ex-wife is going to care about your feeling or even consider it!?!
Get your anger straight and deal with your husbands lies...No wonder why he has an EX-WIFE!!!
Good luck! :(
2006-10-29 17:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husbands about the lie and next time hang up the phone and if she keeps on calling report her to the authorities!
2006-10-29 14:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why he lies about talking to her. Whats your reaction. Careful or you will push him to her.Talk to him calmly with no emotion tell him how you feel and ask what can we to to fix this.
2006-10-29 14:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit getting so upset-it is the EX after all and you are the wife.
relax and don't be so controlling/jealous. Why do you care so much if they talk? let it go
2006-10-29 14:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
depends, is she his ex cos of you? xx
2006-10-29 14:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with his best friend.
2006-10-29 14:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get rid of him
2006-10-29 14:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋