2006-10-29 14:10:47 · 35 answers · asked by justflex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh dear that is a difficult one. you don't say how long you have both been with each other or what you are fed up with?
You may be having a difficult time relating to each other at the moment and it may also be just a passing thing. Have both of you talked about what is bothering you?
If you have a moment have a serious conversation about what it is that you are fed up with. talking often times helps straighten what is bothering you.
I wish you all the best and hope that things work out.
there are many years difference between both of you. Might there be a lack of interest from her to do things?
2006-10-29 14:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You stay married you WIMP! I had a long term relationship with just a few more years between us. We matured and worked on it. But, his old flame (DRUGS) got the best of him. By the way, I didn't marry him. So, what were those LIES you told at the wedding? I PROMISE TO ....! YOU LIED! And, you will lie again. Divorce may seem so easy, so why get married? Because, successful married people will tell you that a piece of paper DOES mean something. Maybe she is tired of you being immature. Did you ever think about how you could make it work? It doesn't happen overnight.
If you had a kid, and it just wasn't workin out when he became 10 or 15 - what would you DO????
2006-10-29 14:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mate, I think ultimately you have to look after number one. There is no point going on another 5 years unhappy and missing out on finding the "right" one.
Granted, you should have had an idea before you were married that you may have felt like this when you were older but at the end of the day its your life and happiness.
Bit of a pickle innit?
2006-10-29 14:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Webby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Goodness, it's the sex thing isn't it? why you have not thought of the age gap in the first place before u got in it. Marriage should be a losting and lasting relationship. And why fed up, you had promised to stay together and accept each other whatever it takes.Communication is a very important thing. Talk it out....
2006-10-29 16:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you no longer feel the relationship is worth saving, then see a lawyer. Find out how to protect any assets you have. Do that first, and listen to his advice. If you wait, she may have her own advice and screw you royally financially.
If you are fed up with the relationship now, as she gets older, it's only going to get worse. Protect yourself, see an attorney (get a female attorney if possible....one generally referred to as a Dragon Lady, is best) Good luck.
2006-10-29 14:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to prepare for the break up before hand and get ready for it, then leave her. Make sure you think it through before hand, because things can get pretty intense between a mad woman and her ex husband....she will try to take advantage of you every way she can once shes pissed off....
You could always leave and move all your stuff out, then file for a divorce and let her receive notice in the mail, instead of having to tell her about it face to face. You could also request your lawyer to be present every time you two meet to talk. this way is probably safer for you. do not cheat though, she can get proof of that and use that against you in court if she wants to fight you over possesions or money with the divorce. it can get ugly, so think it through, but its best you do it now and stop waisting your time and your money on this woman who you no longer love or want to be with. good luck.
2006-10-29 14:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is your wife why did you get married to some one 13 years older than you. I know love is blind but what did you expect in the first place
2006-10-29 14:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some relationships just run its course. You can move on,you wont be the first person to have had a divorce. Just think long and and make sure it really is over.
2006-10-29 14:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You think back and remember.....richer, poorer, better, worse, sickness, health....have you tried counseling? And why did you even mention the age thing? Wasn't it YOU who said when the two of you first got together that "age doesn't matter"....WELL, what's up with that? If it doesn't matter, it has no bearing on why you're fed up with her, right??? RIGHT? Hmmmm......Darn, that hindsight IS 20/20!!
2006-10-29 14:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Remember all the reasons why you married her in the first place.
2006-10-29 14:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋