2006-10-29 14:09:26 · 27 answers · asked by myzztickah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it's not crazy. If your husband is willing to forgive you and will take that risk to trust you again, then why not. Try to win him back. We're only human and we all make mistakes. People can change. Forgiveness and repentance are key factors here.
2006-10-29 14:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Jay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe! I think you should have a look at yourself...a look at the relationship you had with your husband. There was/is a reason you cheated on him. You need answers before you can give him answers. If you ever have a chance with him again you are going to have to come totally clean. Not just tell him you cheated on him, he's going to have many questions that will need to be answered.
2006-10-29 14:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try, but there is no guarantee that he can trust you again or that it will work out. I would try to talk to him (a LOT) before going back to the married life - live apart, talk, hang out, and go from there. Don't press the sex part since he is probably (understandably) mad you cheated. Just take things slowly, but don't get too upset if it doesn't work out. Remember too - you screwed this up so you have to work extra hard to make it work - not him.
2006-10-29 14:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your ex-husband would be CRAZY...if he takes you back!
The trust will NEVER be there again...EVER!
Maybe, the person you cheated with, did not want a cheater either...only a one-nighter...
I don't condone or judge your choices...I just believe that two people get married for love and fidelity to eachother and that two become one...when you saught sex elsewhere...well that's when you seperated your souls...
It's your mistake honey...
2006-10-29 17:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you want him back if you cheated on him?? have some decency and leave him alone, probably what made you cheat on the first place will make you cheat again if you get back with him.
2006-10-29 14:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by fun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no your not crazy, your just a girl who has learned her lesson, and desperatly wants her husband back, so go to him, speak what's in your heart of hearts, take responsibility for your wrong, tell him how sorry you are for his hurt, and ask for his forgiveness. all he can say is yes or no, you will never know until you ask. pray and believe completely that you will reconcile.
2006-10-29 14:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes I do. I dont condone cheating in any fashion, and you openly state that you did. Why would he want someone like you when he can get a good, honest woman?
2006-10-29 14:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i think you are not crazy..cos everybody deserve a second chance and HOPE is always there when there is nothin else to look for!
2006-10-29 14:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are crazy coz he will never take a cheat back into his life
2006-10-29 14:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by Obria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋