everytime shes around her other friends she ignores me completely and when its just us, she acts nice to me.
2006-10-29 14:08:43 · 14 answers · asked by Newlywed 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A best friend wouldn't do that to you. She's not your best friend. She's just someone you hang out with sometimes. Don't tell her any secrets because girls like her will turn on you. Be on the lookout for other people to hang around with.
2006-10-29 14:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and find out why is she acting the way she is acting. Your friend should be nice to you- when other people are around and when she's around you only. Your goal is to get to the bottom of the story as to why she's acting the way she is. I wouldn't waste my time continuing to be this girl's friend. She doesn't appreciate and value your friendship. Keep your head held up high and stay focused on the most important things in life. In the meantime, continue to meet new friends who will not just be nice to you when nobody else is around. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2006-10-29 22:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not your best friend. A best friend would never ignore you at any time. You're good enough for her to talk to when it's only you two but, when you're around others, you're not good enough for her. Stop being with this girl at anytime. You don't deserve how she's treating you. Get yourself a new best friend. Someone you have things in common with and who'll treat you with kindness and be your friend at all times.
2006-10-29 22:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even call her a "friend", I friend will not ignore you and will not act differently when they are around other people. She sounds like a "fake" person to me. Why does she have to act differently when shes around other people, what is she trying to prove?
2006-10-29 22:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by latina_chavez_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would almost think she is using you as a back up person for when she has no one else to hang out with.real true friends acknowledges your around,instead she makes you look like a puppy just following her around.don't let her do it any more to you
and when she says whats your problem let her know how you see things and that your not stupid any more.she'll be lost when she needs that some one to chill with.hang out with friends that appreciates your there and you won't feel left out.she's the dummy not you. lol
take care and best of luck to you
2006-10-29 22:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing yourself an injustice by assuming this girl is your best friend. She's using you. A best friend would NEVER ignore you! Mingle and make some new friends!
2006-10-29 22:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she probaly wants to act cool around her other friends. maybe ur on a whole different level then her (unpopular). i m not trying to be mean. i just said maybe... or maybe she ummm..........ummm...... maybe its because her other friends tell her that she she shouldn't hag out with u or something. u can ask her whats wrong. and why is she ignoring u. best friends dont do that
2006-10-29 22:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ive been there myself and you need to sit down with her and ask her... if she just wants to be secret friends maybe you shouldnt be friends at all.....just remember if you dont do anything about this your just helping it get worse.....and if she doesnt act like a friend she isnt a friend
2006-10-29 22:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her sorryass u need better friends than that
2006-10-29 22:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably not your best friend,and you dont know yet!
2006-10-29 22:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋