i have this friend and i can't call his house. his dad says that he doesn't want girls calling. he just recently got his cell taken away which sux so i've been calling other guys who know him and asking them 2 call him 4 me and tell him 2 call me. there was this one guy who always would and said it was totally fine and he didn't mind. i felt really bad though cuz i know that i would hate it if someone was always doing that to me so i was constantly asking him if he was sure it was okay and he kept saying, yeah its fine. i was afraid though that he'd just blow up one day cuz he never told me it bothered him. well, a few days ago, he finally did. i was just talking to him and he asked me if i needed him to call the guy and i said no but if he wanted to go and find him for me then okay. he completely exploded. he said things like, "if u don't wanna talk to me just tell me! go call him urself!!" was that fair for him to say that to me?! i asked him if it was okay! is this really my fault??
2006-10-29 13:59:49 · 6 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and i talk to him all the time even when i don't need to talk to the other guy. we're really good friends. i've been talking to him even before i met the other guy. its not like i only spoke to him when i needed a favor. i wasn't using him.
2006-10-29 14:00:59 · update #1
i always kinda figured that he wasn't telling me the truth which is why i kept on asking but if he never told me then it shouldn't really be my problem or my fault.....right?
2006-10-29 14:01:45 · update #2
The fact that he exploded show that he does like you. He wasn't right in saying what he said because he shouldn't have done the favor for you since it bothered him so much. This other guy with the overprotective father- do you see him? If you do, talk to him instead of asking the other guy to do favors for you. If there's a will, there's a way. If you guys own computers at home, you can talk to him as well, as long as his father doesn't say anything. Now you know not to ask anyone for favors anymore. Do your own work. Apologize to the guy that did the favor for you and move on. I hope my advice helps. Good luck.
2006-10-29 14:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like hes interested in you himself and he kept saying it was ok so you wouldnt catch on that he likes you...then one day he couldnt handle it anymore and said what he said becasue it made him mad that you wanted to talk to the kid with the freaky dad instead of him. he wasnt wrong but he wasnt really right either.
2006-10-29 22:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your friend is not jealous?
Secondly, perhaps you don't feel like you've been using him, but he does. This was totally your fault and you should apologize.
2006-10-29 22:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but it was right for him to say that
2006-10-29 22:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you & he's jealous.
2006-10-29 22:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH.....To much information.......
2006-10-29 22:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋