Here's my situation. I am asexual or want to be celibate, but can I remain this way for life? I mean, I am young and so I can't imagine this, but I do not think I like men or women. I am not into P's or Boobs. I don't find either sensual/desirable. I do not like the sex organs...period. I do not like men I've dated (sex not enjoyable, don't like their immaturity, personality, tendencies, laziness, lack of cooking skills, lack of tidiness, the list could go on)... I do not like women's typical frame of mind...or is it just hetero women? (their lack of logic --sometimes, beetch-like (I don't feel like spelling it right) behaviors, PMS, lack of tolerance for endurance, feeble minded sometimes, too booby, too slutty, gossipy, too blubbery)... Ok, I sound like a beetch.
I really have a prejudice against dumbness, I think and I can't stand all this nype over sex---porn and all the nasty stuff. Am I complete freak or what?
2006-10-29 13:55:32 · 13 answers · asked by summation 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nothing wrong with being asexual. My cousin is and has been for many years...she's 41. She is still sexual minded, masturbates, and calls herself a gay man in a woman's body. This may not be like you, but it is not as uncommon as you think. Go with the flow. There may be changes in the far future, who knows. Just be true to yourself. That seldom goes wrong.
2006-10-29 14:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're a freak. Either you're not into it, which is fine (helps make up for all the people who are WAY too into it and ONLY EVER TALK ABOUT SEX) or you just haven't met the right person yet.
Sex organs are gross. I'm attracted to men but I still don't think that bit's a thing of beauty. It looks silly. Anyway, if you meet someone who really does it for you, it may not matter as much.
2006-10-29 22:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sore H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are alot who feel like you do. The older I get, the more disgusted I am at what is out there. Try some of the online dating sites and see how many unstable headcases are on there trying to pass themselves off as normal members of society!!!!!!!!!!!! But I can tell you, that someday, when you least expect it, the love of your life will appear. So don't worry about it. You are not a freak, either. Just discriminating. More people should be like that. I admire that!
2006-10-29 23:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're a freak at all. You're just not into men or women. Period. But don't keep this closed. Coz things might change, you know. There's the slightest chance that you haven't found the right man or woman for you. So, just go with the flow.
2006-10-29 22:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're just different. You could be asexual. Some people are and are happy that way. If it works for you then go right ahead.
2006-10-30 05:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess there's nothing wrong with masturbation. Sex doesn't have to be with a partner. You could remain celebate if you wanted to. There's no law against it. Personally, I would think about counselling though, to help you at least identify why you have these issues, even if you intend to remain celebate.
2006-10-29 21:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you're not a freak...quite possibly you're asexual..but that d oesn't appear to disturb you...so I don't see why you can't be happy like that for the rest of your life if that's what you want.
2006-10-29 22:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your depressed or very agitated today. I get like this a lot of the time. you'll find someone who will make you feel like your complete then it will change. Until then do what you want lol
2006-10-30 00:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by BabyBella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just do what u want. im a lesbian but sometimes i think im just nothing because i have a nearly 0% sex drive haha.
2006-10-29 22:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by squishy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way - so I hope you're not a freak.
2006-10-29 22:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by justme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋