I cheated on my ex by mistake about 3 months ago and we broke up then and i miss him so much. He know that i miss him and want him back but he told me that he likes this gurl that i know but she don't like him. How can i get my #1 love back because this is bothering me so bad and i haven't been myself in a couple of days and everytime i think about it, my eyes tear up.
2006-10-29 13:48:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm not trying to be mean but i'm pretty sure that you didn't think of what could have happened when you cheated, you just wanted to have fun, and now you have to pay the price. the most you can do about loosing him is apologize about what you did. if he doesn't take you back then just learn from that mistake and try your best to move on. but you have to really ask yourself if you can take the torment of getting back with him and him never trusting you. that alone could cause the biggest strain in the relationship and if there is no trust, then there's no real love
2006-10-29 13:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Emily F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on your ex by MISTAKE? Come on, now I've heard it all. First of all stop lying to yourself. You cheated, you meant to cheat, end of! You can't make someone love you. You can't make them give you a second chance. The only thing you can do is learn from your mistake.
2006-10-29 13:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you can't really make someone fall in love with you. It either happens or it doesn't. And secondly, you cheated on him by mistake? Did your tongue accidently fall into his mouth? I'm sorry if I sound mean, but I was cheated on before, and there's no way you can cheat on someone by accident.
2006-10-29 14:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first love and I broke up over something stupid, not cheating but it wasn't something either of us did and he never fell back in love wtih me. I think about him all the time still but I have found someone else, sometimes you just have to go out, have fun and give him his space. Sometimes you just have to let things go, as hard as it maybe
2006-10-29 14:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpeaberry42 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really don't want you back after you have admitted your mistake and start to like somebody else why force yourself to be with him. take the hurt and move on, you can chat or e-mail me at tokween@yahoo if you want and maybe something will come out of it..lets see!
2006-10-29 13:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do you cheat on someone by mistake? its obvious that it was on purpose.. otherwise you wouldnt have done it.. you may regret it but it was on purpose. end of story. you cant make someone love you. you hurt him.
2006-10-29 14:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him your sorry and your going to wait for him to come back then steer clear of all other men for 3 months.I did this and it worked I got him back.
2006-10-29 14:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋