Ok, I like kissing girls AND guys. Lips on the face aren't really that different to me. Anyways, I'm a strong Christian, but I believe that as long as God forgives you for your sins after asking for forgiveness from him, he won't send you to hell. I won't go as far as kissing a girl, n I plan to marry a man n have children with him. Its getting very annoying when people say I'm going to hell.... but still, does this make me bi???
2006-10-29 13:45:57 · 30 answers · asked by cattys_cats 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
p.s. I dopn't care if I am, I just wanna know.
2006-10-29 13:46:56 · update #1
ok, maybe I didn't say this right..... I will kiss a girl, but I won't have sex with a girl...I'm just so freaked out about the burning in Hell thing.
2006-10-29 13:53:52 · update #2
AND, what I'm saying is that althjough I'm Christian, I have to admit that I'm not a hypocrite, and I sort of don't believe that God would condemn one of his children for kissing a girl.
2006-10-29 13:55:43 · update #3
Planning to sin and then asking forgiveness for it afterwards is sin in the first degree, pre-meditated sin. It shows that you are still pretty immature in your walk with Christ. I think you need more fellowship with older Christian ladies. You should join a small-group and open up to them, tell them about your homoerotic make-out sessions.
2006-10-29 13:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think kissing will make you bi. If you could see yourself falling in love with or having a relationship with a girl, yes. If it is just a kiss it means you can see the beauty in people, male or female. It is not illegal, so if you like doing it and it fells good to you go for it! Don't pay any attention to people telling you your going to hell! Who are they to judge you? Besides I have never heard that kissing was a sin. Have fun!!!!
2006-10-29 21:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by laura f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you kow you like kissing girls and guys if you have never kissed a girl?
I've noticed that a lot of people seem to go through bisexual tendencies at some point in their lives. I say tendencies because it seems that the bisexual nature comes to the surface as the result of some psychological stage they are going through. But of course, human sexuality is understood very little.
You could be bi, but I've known some girls that claim to like other girls, but they still seem mainly interested in men.
2006-10-29 21:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor, poor masochist. She follows a divine that's put her in an awful situation. He created her to like both, yet will condemn her to burn for all eternity if she picks the wrong partner. Why would someone follow a divine like that? Oh, it's because that's what they've been told over and over!
There are resources out there for GLBT christians. Some of them might help. It sounds like you are bi but have been raised to think that expressing your sexuality is wrong.
2006-10-30 05:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not bi, girls kissing girls on the cheek is not a sign that you're a bi but kissing girls on the lips is a whole different thing! Try to ask your psychiatrist.
2006-10-29 21:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by love_doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're AT LEAST bi if you want sexual relations with both sexes. That's that. Of course, I do think it's strange that you're also a "strong Christian." Why would you condemn yourself to such a narrow life? To PLAN to marry a man and breed and have kiddies..? What if you meet a woman, and you fall in love with her? I'd tell you to stop listening to the crackpots who tell you you're going to hell, but... it's weird when I have to say it to someone who is religious herself.
2006-10-29 21:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you are you; you do not have 2 put yourself into a stereotypical category. Perhaps u should kiss on me; I dont like kissing cause it doesnt feel like anything,maybe u can show me a thing or 2.
2006-10-29 21:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by BUDDY LUV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, go to www.watchtower.org and read up on Homosexuality, and Hell. You will learn alot about what the Bible REALLY says about those subjects. And how God REALLY feels about it. You will be pleased with the truth I'm sure. What have you got to loose?
2006-10-30 16:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is a little confusing...you say you like kissing girls and guys and then you say you won't go as far as kissing a girl....It sounds to me like you've already determined what your life is to be.
2006-10-29 21:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you kissed a girl. big freaking deal. no you are NOT going to hell. unless you've dated, have sex, had strong feelings towards or even married a girl, i doubt you are truly, truly bi.
2006-10-29 21:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by somethingsovague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋