im still thinking suicide?

Question

im only 15 and im bisexual so life is hard.in not with the in crowd.and dont have ne friends or a close relationship with my family...ive been dating a girl(yes im a girl)for the past 8 months....weve became close and i love her more than nething...she broke up with me...i havent ate for 3 days..my legs/arms are covered in cuts,and im emotionally dying inside
suicide seems like the only answer as of now....
wat to do?

Answer 1

Sometimes when we love for the first time it the toughest. Because it's a feeling we are new to, an experience full of new emotions we never felt before. There's all types of loves, good and bad. The enemy loves to do harm, he loves to play on you and see you fall or hurt. But true love conquors all,( That's the Love of God...) it is true and never means to see you hurt or in pain, it's a healthy love. Your young, and you are still changing inside and out. You will feel strong emotions for someone very deeply and it will hurt like ever when it is ended or you are no longer together. But can I please say something to you? Realtionships are like going to the beach and building sand castles. We build them by our own doing and they look really good. Sometimes we may be complimented on how good our sand castles look. (Our relationships) But just like the tide washes up on shore and tares the sand castle down, the enemy will lead you to believe that you have something real and special and then he tares the castle down (the relationship) when you start to fall for that person. I've been hurt too, it's not fun at all. But when I decided to let God be the builder and foundation of the love in my life. Things couldn't of got better. I know it hurts so bad and there is nothing like the pain of love or the deception of love. But please try an eat something and seek some professional help. They will be better able to assist you in your time of need. Suicide is never the answer to anything! I don't know if you are familiar with hell, but it's very real and is where the enemy lives. he can't have another chance at life and was cast down from heaven. But we have a chance to make it to heaven. A place where there will be no more pain and hurts. What you are feeling is from the hand of the enemy. Please don't let him have his way, he wants you where he is so bad. That place was made for him only but so many people go there because of his tricks and deceptions on them. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't waste it, please don't throw it away. And you don't want your lascerations to become infected. Clean and wrap them and go and seek medical help. They'll understand what your going through and will help and be there to walk you through. God doesn't want you crying or hurting yourself. You need to call on Him, I know it's scary but He's real you will be His miracle of healing. He loves to give them and He's waiting for you to say "God, if your real, then can you help me?" You will touch His heart, and He will send His angels down to comfort you all night. Ask Him, tell Him how you feel. But because of (Free Will) you are free to believe what you want. You can do want you want, and all He can do is watch in sorrow for you. He can't stop your choices with out you allowing Him to. But He is God, and if you say it's ok to help you. He'll be there before you can even get the words out. He wants so bad for you to know Him and let Him do what He does best, ("bless"). Just like you were brave anough to tell me and everyone what you are going through and dealing with, tell Him too, He wants to help and can help you far better than anything or anyone else. Your strong! Your stronger than this situation too, and you will get past this, trust me! God is asking for your hand, He's saying, "child of mine, stop your weeping, my love for you I'm always keeping." "Daughter of mine, more precious than the fish of the sea and birds of the tree, I created you with my own hand." "I love you, I love you, yes! I'll always love you." "Please CHILD OF MINE, stop your weeping and come to me, speak to me!" Blessings~

Answer 2

Life sometimes gets difficult. Where you feel like you are no longer living -- just simply existing. I feel that way right now. I have a few friends. But they are pretty busy with their own lives. I have a girlfriend. But she is in school and is with her friends fairly often. I sometimes ask if this is all I am or is there something more. Sometimes I have really good days, sometimes really bad ones -- but for reasons I don't know. I wonder what keeps me going. I'll give you the same advice I give myself. Someone out there needs me, even if I don't need myself. I may feel empty and hollow inside at times. But sometimes, without knowing it, I enrich the lives of others. Even if letting yourself down isn't a reason not to commit suicide, the anguish of the ones you leave behind is. Take it day by day. Do things that keep you busy. I find if I keep busy, I don't have the pain hurt as much. Good luck. I'm sure the world is much better with you in it.

Answer 3

Well for one thing your only 15, you really cant say your bi because you haven't experienced enough of life, the way your feeling about your break-up is normal,lots of people go through that, My best suggestion is go out ,go for a walk do something you enjoy, their will be many more loves in your life, As for the suicide don't do anything with out really thinking about it hard,there's usually a way out, and if you don't see the light at the end of the tunnel find someone to talk to, Because there are people who do care,I do and if you want to talk just e-mail I'm always up for a good chat and I know a few people who have left this world,just because it was to hard for them. Don't give up , not just yet there are better things to come.!! Take care hope to see you again on here...

Answer 4

You've already gotten this answer, but "Don't do it."
Things will happen in your life that will make you feel so depressed and hopeless, but I urge to always persevere. What happened to you is sad. Yes. But God will do things in your life that you may hate him for, but know that he has done it for a reason. One day, it maybe three years from now, you will find someone who seems absolutely perfect for you, and you will forget about this girl. Get off the floor and get something to eat. You can do it. Forget about the past. Observe it, learn from it and press one towards the future. You're only two years younger than me. You've got more to live for than that girl. I say this because when I was fourteen I thought of suicide over a girl who didn't like me, and I know that it's sounds so wonderful to just give up, let go and commit suicide. But just remember, you'll find somebody that will mean so much more to you.

Answer 5

I must preface this by saying that I cannot be responsible for your final decision, but I advise you to reconsider everything>
First, what were your ambitions before you decided to become involved in that lifestyle? Second, what was it that drove you to that point? Why are you not close to your family.
What you need now is someone in your area to discuss this with you.?
When you think about it, suicide is just a way to cop out of coping with lifes issues.
What will it accomplish?
I want tell you how you feel. I will only say that many of lifes problem come and go.
At the risk of sounding religious, I want to suggest that you find a church in your community who can help with this issue.
Try talking to God candidly and you will see a difference.

Answer 6

At your age, whether gay, bi or straight, the relationships do not last very long. You put too much of yourself into the relationship if you feel the way you say. Suicide is "Self Murder," and will affect every member of your family and every friend you ever had. Don't take relationships so seriously. True love is way down the road for you, it will be yours soon enough. So relax, and just have fun with any relationship for the present. The "In" crowd is not that important and they are always dissing one another behind their backs. I wish you the very best of luck and will pray for you. ; - )'s to you. Now, look at all the support you've gotten in these answers. Every one of them Love YOU

Answer 7

Please do not cause yourself anymore harm and get some help. Talk to someone you trust - a teacher, pastor, counselor or friend. Life is so precious and it will get better. Take some time and get to know who you really are. I think that there is more to you than you realize. You are a beautiful and lovable person and things will eventually go your way. It may be a difficult road, but you will make it. I believe in you and am praying that you will discover that life is more than what you are experiencing right now. Don't worry about being in the "in" crowd. It's way over-rated anyway. Please get some help love. Peace be with you...

Answer 8

Oh no no no sweetie don't do that. I don't know if you are religious or anything but God loves you no matter what and you always will have a friend in him. Don't kill yourself becasue despite what you are going through somebody in the world is thinking of you. No matter your sexual prefrence you are beatiful you are wanted somebody cares. I care if I didn't I woudn't have answered. Because I'm a christian I love you and I wish you the best of luck. And as for your parents give them some time to adjust to your lifstyle. Since you are only 15 you are a bit limited in decisions. Have you tried talking to any one else about your plans. I just beg that you don't take your life. This is a storm that only you are strong enough to get out of. Please reconsider. You can always have a friend in me.

Answer 9

Young lady, why should you cut yourself and think of suicide. Been a bisexual in life is so common nowadays in this world. Seen that you comfirm yourself as one and lost one, that does not meant that you have to end your life. You can till stand up and find your next partner in no time. Do not waste life given to you by ending this way. Be happy, see the bright side of the world and carry on with your life.

Answer 10

I'm a straight dude, and I go to this pub that has all kinds of people in it. Mostly bikers, but some lesbian chicks. I jokingly call it a lesbian biker's bar, but I don't mean any disrespect. I think it's a cool place, and it's fun watching the women and wondering if they're straight or bi or lesbian. It doesn't bother me either way, I think it's cool.

What I'm trying to say is, that there is a place for you somewhere, on this place we have. We are all blessed to be living in a time of such awareness, even if there are people who do not agree with who we are. There are always people that are like us, somewhere.

Answer 11

think about this for a second.

you are 15.

take this from something i know.
im bi-sexual.
and i've too been broken hearted with someone i spent a year and a half with and they left me for someone else.

suicide is NOT the answer.

you will find someone else, your only 15...by 17 you could find the one.

you have your whole life ahead of you. dont waste it by killing yourself over some girl. shes a thing in the past, and once she realizes you were the best thing in her life...she'll come crawling back and you would have found someone else.

trust me.

im here if you need me