am i just worring to much?

Question

i just asked the question about am i pregnant..alot of women dont understand how scary it is for me i understans i was in the wrong to to it in the first place but i also forgot to say the ways i feel are ..not tierd not hungary need the toilet alot and cry alot and shake i am only 15 and i would like some more help not insults please i want to feel a bit better not worse thankyou for anyhelp =D x

Answer 1

i am the same way - hypochondriac. You can actually scare your body into thinking you are pregnant. If I were you, get a pregnancy test and find out for sure. Get it over with. Nothing sucks worse than not knowing. Deal with the results when you know them. And remember, no matter what, it's not the end of the world. People will be pissed, but they'll get over it.

Answer 2

OK, first, please calm down or relax. Getting stressed out won't help anyway, although I understand how very stressful this must be for you. Next thing is that, although you are under the legal age, don't get it into your head that sex is "wrong" and you are "bad" - that most likely isn't true at all. It's probably best not to tell your parents just yet. I think it would be a good idea however to test for pregnancy. do it a couple of times to make sure. If negative, then you are lucky this time, but the only thing to think about now is STDs - you may need to be medically examined/tested just in case. If you get positive result, you will probably have to tell your parents one way or another. That probably will cause stress, so think EXTREMELY carefully about how to tell them. After which you have to decide whether you want to be a parent at your age or would it be better to abort it. I certainly hope nobody dares to insult you, as you are in distress and do not deserve it. I will see personally to reporting anyone that does.

Answer 3

my grandaughter's name is sarah and she is only a little older than you. so I'll tell you what I would tell her. I know some people will give you the big talk about what a sin it is to have an abortion but I recommend it. You are too young to really do justice to raising a baby. You will resent the days you are home babysitting while your friends are having a good time. The young man involved will pretty much desert you if he hasn't already. So, have the abortion, learn from the experience and plan your next pregnancy and get on with your life.consider yourself lucky to have any choices - many young ladies didn't. And later, when the time is right you and your husband can have all the babies you want.

Answer 4

Sarah, those do not sound like pregnancy symptoms at all. You usually don't have to use the toilet a lot when you are pregnant. You actually get constipated, unless you are talking about having to pee. When you are pregnant, you will feel more hungry and shaking is not a symptom either. You are obviously very stressed out from worrying and all of your symptoms are things that come from stress, believe it or not. Do you happen to know when your last cycle started, when you had sex, and how long your periods usually last? I can help you a lot more if you know these things. You can add it to your question if you know it and I will add to my response. I hope this helps you honey.

Answer 5

If you had sex, yes you could be pregnant, you might also have contracted a disease. Go to the store and buy a pregnancy test. If you are and don't want it, get the "morning after" pill but it must be taken within three days. If your not sure how to go about this call the pharmacy and ask them how you can get it and call Planned Parenthood. It's scary to face this, but your already dealing with the consequences, so now you have to handle it and there is no time to lose because you have a lot to think about. Everybody makes mistakes, just learn from this one.

Answer 6

I think you need to calm down first I know alot of pepole are going to tell you you've ruined your life but thats a lie a baby is a blessing ok don't forget that ever take a test see a doctor then talk to your parents if you are you can decide what to do ( even though I'm against Aborting that is up to you) there is alot to do and if you are and you decide to keep it hopefuly they can watch him/her for u while ur at school and you can learn to take care of it and do homework I know it seems like there is nothing you can do but there is alot you can do if you have a baby now if your not do me a fav? Use EXTRA Protection! ok

Answer 7

Sweetie,

The chances of getting pregnant from having sex once are relatively small, however if you have sex you know there is a chance you are pregnant.

If you are worried about being pregnant it is easy to have all the symptoms or none whether or not you are pregnant because you are under stress.

The best thing to do is to repeat the pregnancy test in 1 week or 5 days after the day your period should have started whichever is earlier (I know it is hard to wait). It is best to do it with your pee first thing in the morning, I know this is probably hard for you to do as you are probably testing at school. Otherwise it is best to use the test when you haven't peed for as long as possible.

The other thing you can do is get a blood test at the doctors as they are more accurate, however it is likely you would have to go back the next day for the results so I don't know how easy that would be for you to do.

I don't know where you live so I do not know what your options are to get help without your parents knowing. Where I live you can go to planned parenthood and they can not reveal the information to your parents. They can also "prescribe" the birth control pill, but you will have to go buy it from them, which is fine they sell it at cost which is waaaay cheaper than the drug store. They may also have condoms and other things you can buy/get for free. Planned Parenthood will also have accurate information about sex, birth control and laws where you are.

Where I live the school nurse can also sign you out to go to Planned Parenthood without your parents knowledge. It may be worth talking to your school nurse, if you have one. Before you mention *why* you are talking to her though, be sure to ask whether she will reveal the info to your parents. There is no need to get your parents all worked up if you are not pregnant.

It would also be good to get tested for STDs and possibly take some preventative antibiotics. I know it was probably the first time for your boyfriend too, but better safe than sorry. If you do go to a clinic/doctor/planned parenthood ask about Plan B/The morning after pill. This can be taken up to 72 hours after unprotected sex. Because even the best birth control can fail. You can forget pills and condoms can break. I had a condom break when I was around 16, I took the morning after pill. Boy did it make me sick, but I am glad that I had it available.

I am not going to condem you for having sex. I was younger than you when I started and so was my husband. I think many people are starting a lot earlier and it is hypocritical to yell at you from something that they have done or that society puts so much pressure on you to do. However do try to be as safe as possible and get the most accurate information you can. It is very important to always use condoms, even if you have your period because not only can you get pregnant you can catch STDs which can have long reaching complications like infertility and death.

Once you know for sure whether you are pregnant or not then you can deal with what to do. I don't want to overwhelm you with advice about that now, you have enough to worry about just finding out if you are pregnant. If you want to e-mail me feel free. [e-mail]

Take care and try not to worry too much, like I said the chances are very very small.

Take care.

Answer 8

Honey take a deep breath. If you are not pregnant and you are stressing, it will hold your period from coming by a few days. Take a home pregnancy test about 15 days after the time you think you conceived. (This should be roughly the time your period should be due.) The symptoms you mentioned seem like stress (crying and shaking). Every woman has different symptoms for pregnacy, but sore/tender breasts, dizziness and forgetfulness/absentmindedness were my symptoms. Email me if you want someone to talk to. ;)

Answer 9

wow babe! I feel for you- so sorry your feeling this way-
wish I could offer yuo some direct advice but I've not myself experienced being preg.

My sister was pregnent at 18- she wanted to be and planned for it so the outset was different for her- she looked at every bodily change with open arms-loved being morning sick. everyday, loved being ratty, every day, even loved abstaining from drink- put me to shame as I was 22 at the time!

What I can offer is the advice that if you are afraid of whats happening you are more likely to notice the negative stuff- its all there for a purpose, think of it like that- the sickness and stuff is just your bodies response to the hormones is is getting in for your baby, so it can be healthy, the tierdness is your bodys way of slowing you down, so your baby can grow better,

Please though, speak to some one who knows more stuff, a youth worker or some one you are friends with who you feel isnt judgemental- even teachers can offer an ear if you ask for help.

good luck withit all, take it one day at a time though, you are right, it is a big step, it doesnt have to be a scary one though.

Answer 10

Listen, go to the family planning clinic and find out if you are so you can stop worrying, if you not you have nothing to worry about and hopefully you will learn from your mistake. If you are you have two things to worry about- whether you will go ahead with it or not.Both decisions are life changing decisions you need to recongnise a child is hard work, they are lovely but need a secure up bringing and lots of love, im not denying young people cant give that, but its more enjoyable having a baby when your in a loving relationship and you can give your baby love AND security. But no one can tell you what to do its YOUR decision, please only do what you want to do, cos you might regret it for the rest of your life. Good luck in whatever your future brings and remember to be careful- like my nan used to say 'if you cant be good, be careful, if you cant be careful,remember the date' i never listened and ended up with 5. LOL

Answer 11

oh sweetie i know just how you felt i found out i was pregnant when i was over 9 weeks tests didnt show up before the one that found i was preg was at a hospital appointment had a blood test did dozens of tests at home i had not felt anything was different other than i was more tired than usual your righ tto worry your only young you have your whole life ahead of you i hope that you get the outcome you want good luck x