What is best way to get a man to marry you?

Question

I am only 22 and have had over 50 boyfriends. I am tried of going through men and I want to get married and have kids. Any advice?

Answer 1

Most definitely do I have advice!

1.) You can't "get" a man to marry you. Why? Becuz it would be based on deceit not true love in marrying your best friend.

2.) You're only 22!! Do you know how much more of life you need to live? And having 50 boyfriends by your age, really isn't something I'd be proud of! It kinda shows that you don't have a very good track record in the relationship dept.! And you want to get married?! Come on!

3.) I truly believe that a person should live a little bit of life before "settling down". If I only had gotten that info when I was your age, I wouldn't have gotten married when I did. I was your age, wanted a child - and was 3 mos. pregnant when we got married - we dated for 9 mos., thought he was the man of my dreams! I was so far off base! I did have two beautiful, intelligent, wonderful children during that short marriage (5 yrs.), but I sure had to endure going thru hell!! We divorced and I raised those 2 kids on my own. Even after I got married a second time - I still raised my two babes alone. I waited 6 1/2 years to marry the second husband, we had a child together (she was a surprise! but a wonderful one), she was 4 by the time we married. That marriage was a month short of 5 years. And they always say the 1st, 3rd, and 7th years of a marriage are the worst. So now, I'm on my third marriage, we've been together 3 yrs. (married in April) we have had some pretty big ups and downs - before marriage - my kids are 19, 17, and 12. And I have an 11 mo. old stepdaughter. I was 22 when I started this journey called my life and now 21 yrs. later......I really wish I would have waited and lived some life a little and got to know myself a hell of a lot better! I would have probably had a great first marriage! And, I should have waited to marry my best friend. That's who my 3rd is, my very best friend. Don't rush life, it goes pretty fast on its own! Trust me. It seems like yesterday that I had my oldest. I sure wish my life wouldn't have went so fast and I put things off for tomorrow when I should have done them that day!

Answer 2

I think the fact that you've had 50 boyfriends is a sign that you aren't ready for a long-term commitment. Even though you want it, it doesn't seem that the trend is to have relationships that COULD turn into marriages. Also, you can't make anyone marry you or get them to want to marry you. It's just not as simple as a formula, ya know? I'm sorry you're tired of this but you're also really young and most people aren't getting married until their mid to late 20s!

Answer 3

You are only 22 and have 50 boyfriends. You seriously need to rethink about ur self-worth and personality before you get into another relationship. You don't get a man to marry you. You should be a person that a man will love to die and marry you and stay by your side. Work on yourself first.

Answer 4

Stats say that about 80% of men have had affairs and maybe around 50% of women. Men cheating have nothing to do with a happy or unhappy home. It has to do with biology. Men are biologically polygamous. They need variety. There is a real reason why there are 12,000 topless clubs and prostitution is the worlds oldest profession. Hookers will tell you that married men make up 80% or more of their business. And they wil also tell you that they have saved or extended moremarriages than any marriage counsellor. Another bit for your curiosity, divorce is in the 50% to 60% range except amoung swingers whre it is around 10% or less.

Answer 5

Firstly you need to figure out if you want to get married to that particular person or whether you just want to get married in general. I don't think there's any particular way to get a man to marry you. I think if a guy picks up on the fact that you really want to do this he may get the impression that you're needy or desperate so if you are intending to drop hints, be very subtle!

Answer 6

Well 22 in my opinion is still way too young , whats the hurry you can still have kids at say 25-29. becareful what you wish for as read all the problems with married couples here on answers.

But if you must know how to rope a man in. It is easy men are visual and men love and want s.e.x. be one little sexy hottie be wearing the sexiest garterbelts and stockings and lingerie and tell your man you love him and you love sex. and he'll be eating out of your hand.
but again becareful you have tons of time and when your older men will have more money to spend on you and your lifestyle

Answer 7

When the time is right, your day will come. You are too young to be married. Enjoy all of lifes gifts before you make such a huge committment. Get a great career, travel see the world then think about settling down. You can't make marriage happen and it shouldn't be rushed.

Answer 8

There isn't. You don't want to be married to someone that you had to "trick" into marrying you. You're still young, just take it easy, eventually it will most likely happen if you relax about it.

Telling men that you want to get married is a sure fire way of scaring them off quick.

Answer 9

22 and had 50 b/f's? Maybe you should have a look at yourself. It sounds like you have a few issues. You can't get a man to marry you, they have to want to marry you.

Answer 10

maybe it's because you've gone through 50 men already, and he don't want someone who is used up. wow, 22 yrs + 50 boyfriend???? wooo, some piece. no wander men now a day don't respect some one like you because you been around the block. I remember at 24, I've only had two boyfriend, and married my the third boyfriend I met and still with him. yeah.