am i just worring to much?

Question

i just asked the question about am i pregnant..alot of women dont understand how scary it is for me i understans i was in the wrong to to it in the first place but i also forgot to say the ways i feel are ..not tierd not hungary need the toilet alot and cry alot and shake i am only 15 and i would like some more help not insults please i want to feel a bit better not worse thankyou for anyhelp =D x

Answer 1

Try a home pregnancy test to start with; you can get one discretely without any fuss at most supermarkets or chemists.

If it's positive, then take it one step at a time from there. But for now, the first thing you really need to do is find out if you're pregnant or not.

Good luck.

Answer 2

How late are you with your period? You said in your first question that you took a test and thought you saw a faint line? If there's a line at all, then you're pregnant. If you're not sure whether or not you see a line, wait a few days, then take another test. As for the other symptoms you mention here, you might just be crying and shaking a lot because you're scared. Don't really count that as a pregnancy symptom. Get yourself to planned parenthood as soon as you can. They can tell you what your options are, and tell you what the law says in regards to whether or not you can have an abortion without telling your parents. (If that's what you want to do.)
Here's the web address for planned parenthood, they have some information on there that could be helpful to you, too.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
Good luck to you, and I know you don't need me to tell you this but, PLEASE be careful in the future. I'm a mom of two kids, and you have WAY too much to look forward to right now without being saddled down with children.

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel. In september I was paranoid about being pregnant (which is crazy because I have PCOS it's a reproductive disorder) but I knew I was wrong too. Anyhow you're probably just paranoid. I know I was. But it'll be ok. No ones parents are more strict than mine. Anyhow I turned out not to be pregnant. Take a pregnancy test and then wait for your period. AND an overactive bladder can be due to anything. (like diabetes but don't become paranoid about that either) Look for symptoms such as sensitive nipples and excessive hunger A friend told me that there was a pressure you feel in your stomach if you are and my pregnant cousin said that after 3 months she couldn't suck in her stomach very far. Also do some research on pregnancy symptoms. And if you aren't pregnant try abstaining from sex I AM!

Wish you the best of luck

Answer 4

OK, first, please calm down or relax. Getting stressed out won't help anyway, although I understand how very stressful this must be for you. Next thing is that, although you are under the legal age, don't get it into your head that sex is "wrong" and you are "bad" - that most likely isn't true at all. It's probably best not to tell your parents just yet. I think it would be a good idea however to test for pregnancy. do it a couple of times to make sure. If negative, then you are lucky this time, but the only thing to think about now is STDs - you may need to be medically examined/tested just in case. If you get positive result, you will probably have to tell your parents one way or another. That probably will cause stress, so think EXTREMELY carefully about how to tell them. After which you have to decide whether you want to be a parent at your age or would it be better to abort it. I certainly hope nobody dares to insult you, as you are in distress and do not deserve it. I will see personally to reporting anyone that does.

Answer 5

Sweetie, stop panicking. I'm not going to have a go at you, we all did daft things at that age.

First of all, what test did you use? I would strongly recommend Clear Blue, it's the best and will give you the right answer.

If that doesn't work - go to your family planning clinic (most doctor's surgery's have them). They will do a test, and will not insist on telling your mum.

However, whatever the outcome you should talk to your mum. She will be cross, of course, but that's 100% because she loves you - and she's the best person to help.

Abortion is open to you if necessary, and provided it is carried out early is not usually a bg deal - physically at least. Emotionally is a different matter, that's why you need someone on your side.

I don't know if you are pregnant, or not - you could be, but late periods are very common when you're 15.

So, first thing tomorrow, go and get a Clear Blue test. No point worrying if there's nothing to worry about.

Good luck xxxx

Answer 6

I was pregnant 2 weeks before I turned 16. I know how scary it is. But let's face it, this is not the place to be asking questions. Planned Parenthood is great and will help alot. I chose to keep my daughter and now have 2 others. I finished school and have a great job. Don't be scared, things will work out the way they are supposed to....Back to your question... You could have no symptoms or all of them and you may or may not be pregnant. You could be sick! See a Dr. if you can asap. Good luck.

Answer 7

hun dont worry about what other people think. u ask a question...people are just answering in what how they feel. u are young like i was when i first had my son . im 24 now with a 6 and 7 yr old. having a chid is alot , only u can deside . take a test to first see if u are or not then diside what to do next. if u need to talk my im at yahoo is shellbugs21.

Answer 8

hello popett, I would advise u to pop into your nearest chemist & buy a pregnancy test, if you are pregnant dont panic, as there is always a solution, just tell someone close to you & explain you are very scared. if you are not pregnant, learn from this experience!!I am glad that you are responsible enough to admit you were wrong to have underage sex, it is against the law, but hopefully you wont do it again til your at least sixteen. hope this helps & everything works out for the best for you. Kerry x

Answer 9

it's a very scary thing! I'm 15 as well, and if I was pregnant, not that i could be lol, I would be FREAKING out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But please, there's no point stressing until you DEFINITELY know you're pregnant!!!!!! Wait the time that you have to, THEN have a test - then you can worry!!! Well, even if it is a yes, there's options like Adoption but you never know - Pregnancy isn't that bad - there's good things too.. such as a cute little girl!!... or a boy.. but I don't like little boys because you can't put them in little dresses.. I don't really think I'm helping you am I?Sorry! lol.. But I honestly think u should just RELAX until you know for sure,hunny!!!! It'll be okay!!!!!!!! :) Love Me xx

Answer 10

my darling you are in the first stages of pregnancy every mother to be wees a lot it feels like buckets are coming out of you right?

not many women feel tired or sick in pregnancy
or hungry that happens in later stages

please look at what i put in your last question

your just a baby your self please don't through your life away to mother hood
i had my first child at 25 and even at that age being a mother was hell
you have more fears of your own child than anything else you need a life before you can experience what i did at 25.
please look at my answer in your other question
your options are open to only you