my other daughter who is 15 is pregnate she told me this yesterday ... we went to the hospital and found out she was not lieyn
should i be upset?
Tell me ur opinion...
2006-10-29 13:05:51 · 16 answers · asked by ~Jessica~ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just my opinion, I think that no matter what you say, she needs a supportive mother who loves her and is there for her. I know that this is going to make her life much different, and she will have to grow up much quicker than she should. If I were the parent, I definitely would be upset, but know that there is nothing that I could do about it now. Maybe you should ask her why she didn't take precautionary measures to protect herself from getting pregnant. Whoever is responsible for doing this to her should be made to take responsibility for the baby and support it. My heart goes out to the future of the child, will it have a father, will it have the nurture it needs? How can the world continue to support children having children? Lord Help! God Bless You in raising your child and grandchild!! You need all the help you can get
2006-10-29 13:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Travis W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can be upset of course i'm sure you would be if you care about your daughter is it really something she wanted to happen? and is she happy about it? if she is then i think you should support her,i know 15 is really young to become a mother but depending on the person it could be for the better or worse,i was a young mother (16) with my first and i really fell like it was a blessing i was headed down a bad road till i got pregnant and i realized i wanted better. i dont know how your daughter is, but i feel like the more support you give her the better she and your unborn grandchild will be,your her mother i'm sure she probably looks up to you. best wishes to you and her
2006-10-29 13:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should be upset with her yes, but more so with yourself because you have been a terrible role model for her. You also are probably on welfare yourself, so what would you expect. You are probably uneducated, and your daughter doesn't think that life could be better for herself. You have no idea how to even spell. Get an education, get a job and have your daughter give her baby up for adoption so a real family can raise the child, so it will have a real chance at life.
2006-10-29 13:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by annie w 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Really nothing you can do but accept it. She needs your support. Make sure she knows what she is in for. I got pregnant with my 2 year old when I was 16 and actually went homeless because my parents got upset and kicked me out, so now I dont let them see their grandchild. Dont let her do that to you.
2006-10-29 13:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal Woods 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a right to be upset but the BEST thing you can do is be there for her and support her so she doesn't make anymore bad decisions. Let her know that what she did wasn't right but you are there to help as long as she puts in work (so make her get a job) and make sure she stays in school.
2006-10-29 13:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by giggles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U shouldn't be upset because there's nothing u can do now. She needs ur support and love right now, so be there and help her get through this. Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-29 14:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by lilmoma4202006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you should but you shouldnt. My boyfriend's sister was pregnant when she was 16 and when she told her mom she didnt get mad just upset and cried about it. Dont yell at her and be those kind of moms.If you yell at them it wouldnt be right because she told you and didnt keep it from you. You have to just exsept it because its not gonna change. The best thing to do is to talk to her and dont make it seem like its ALL her fault, and dont think its your fault either.
2006-10-29 13:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is perfectly normal for you to be upset but chances are she is scared and just needs you to be a mom right now....so be upset if you need just try and not let her know i know that is hard but what she needs is you to accept it and be calm with her, and if shes not to far there is a chance she could miscarry and im sure she is scared goodl uck and after the baby have her put on bc until she is ready...good luck and remember your her mom you dont want her to run away
2006-10-29 13:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by mommyof3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing you can do about it now, other than accept the fact that you are goin to be a grandmother (sorry if that sounded too harsh) in a way you should be upset but then again, its already to late to try to do anything about it. i wish all of you best of luck
2006-10-29 13:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by Glendy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no you should help her, it Will help make your relationship with her strong, what is it going to help if you be upset? she is already pregnant .let her know that you love her and don't give the baby over to abortion this will only leave more long term scares when she is older, HELP AND LOVE, HELP AND LOVE !!!!!
2006-10-29 13:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋