recently I have been looking at girls as more then friends. I look at pictures and wonder what it would be like to be with them, or to maybe kiss them. but I do have a boyfriend. and I think I love him...
whats wrong with me?!?!
2006-10-29 13:02:52 · 18 answers · asked by ocfan 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
nothing is wrong your just bisexual
2006-10-29 13:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through the stage of finding someone of the same sex attractive. This is normal. It depends on whether you would act on this or not. Just follow your heart. This will help you realize who you really are, and who you really want to be with. It does not matter that you have a boyfriend at the moment at all. As I've always said, people switch teams all the time. Even your boyfriend can, if he wants to, and the circumstances arise. Oh, and have fun exploring. Coz the experience should be fun. \m/
2006-10-29 21:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you....msot girls feel this way at some point in their life. Some admit it..some don't...some act on it and others don't. But.....I think it would be better to get it out of your system now than later....instead of wondering....act on your instincts and see where that leads you. Whether if you enjoy it....sometimes doing a wild and exciting thing like this can help your sex life very much. Good Luck
2006-10-29 21:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Citizen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity makes you normal. Acting on it makes you bisexual. The hormones are strange things. As a woman, I can tell you why I like women, aesthetically pleasing to the eye, softer and more intuitive to another woman's needs. I always say, look for love. True love knows no gender.
2006-10-29 22:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're into women. It sure sounds like you might be. If you're in a committed, monogamous relationship and are happy that way don't stray. If the relationship is more open or ends, then go ahead and explore those desires if you choose. Who knows, the right *woman* might be right around the corner.
2006-10-30 05:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called bi curious . Just go with it see what happens I think its best to explore while you young. I have a bf and I am bi but I have never been with a woman so I am in the process of figuring out how to tell him we have to break up so I can explore these feelings. (we have been together two yrs) good luck hun
2006-10-30 00:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by BabyBella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel attracted to people of the same sex; it doesn't mean anything other than appreciation of one person for another. You could very well be lesbian, bi-sexual, curious, willing, straight, whatnot. Best way to figure out who you are is get unconditionally comfortable with yourself, and then go find out what feels "normal" for you. Good luck :)
2006-10-29 21:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lilywhite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you might be going through the stage where hormones are very stupid. it's nothinig wrong with your feelings. don't worry it will all work out for the best. no matter what sex you end up with. it's still o.k. oh.... you can still love him and be gay you know. love has no boundries. there's a very thin line between gay and straight. ( as they call it) so walk it carefully.
2006-10-29 21:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are just more attractive then men, not much more then that, their soft and smooth and everything pretty. Two of them together are almost as good as three of them together ect ect...
2006-10-29 21:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have close "girl" friends...so this might be the reason for this feeling. Personally, I disagree with girl/ girl relationships for religious reasons, but that is just my opinion.
2006-10-29 21:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by RainbowBrite 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to the 21st Century - while I think that having a bf and a sexual relationship with him is best - go ahead and explore something with another female. - have fun and good luck with figuring out who you are.
2006-10-29 21:06:08 · answer #11 · answered by eeaglenest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋