am i pregnant?:S.?

Question

i have been goinf out with my boyfriend for two months and one night me and my best freind went to get my boyfriend and her boyfriend and we just had sex without a condom and since i have not had a period and should have and have had cramp cant sleep or eat and i did a test and i duno if its a line or not its really hard to see .can i get an abortion if i am under 16 ? please help i am to young for children :(

Answer 1

Yes, you can get an abortion. It is your right and it is your decision, no one elses. You can also keep the baby. That is your decision too. When I was 16 I got pregnant and I did not know I had rights. My mother forced me to have an abortion. I hope everything works out. Take care.

Answer 2

Hi
Yes, you can get an abortion that's not a problem, but you have to ascertain if you're actually pregnant first. Have you missed a period and if so how late are you?
Re: the pregnancy test that you've already taken, check the box, which will give you directions on how to view the window which states your results. Usually, it will say that if a dot appears in the middle of the window that means that you're pregnant. If a line appears that usually means that you're not.
Hope this helps. I've been here before! LOL!

Answer 3

It depends where you live as to if you can have an abortion under 16. Do another test in a few days and see what happens. Go to your doctor (they usually like you to have missed a period before they do a blood test) and ask for the pill (if you are not pregnant). Your boyfriend should be helping to pay for tests and meds etc.

Good luck

Answer 4

Abortion is wrong. You are committing a greater sin by killing an innocent child if you do it. You have no choice but to keep the child. Ask for forgiveness from God and never do that "thing" again. Tell your parents about it so the can help lighten your burden. I'm 15, but I have been well brought up right from my early age as a child. I know so many things about Teens and relationships, and what not to do. You can get more advice from this book written by George B. Eager. Call this number for help - : The Edna Gladney Center
1-800-412-0353 national; 1-800-772-2740 Texas
I stay at London, but i think I got this book maybe last year or so. If the number doesnt go through, you can search for the author's name on the intenet and get facts about his latest books.

Answer 5

First, calm down. You need to check IF you are pregnant or not. See your GP and get tested.
She or he should be able to refer you for a termination with the agreement with another GP as you are physically not ready to have a baby.
Tell your parents if you can or another adult - most parents are actually quite supportive.
Finally, don't feel guilty. Just learn from the experience. Why do you think there is birth control around? To prevent births for young ladies like you. Use it and move on. Good luck.

Answer 6

If your too young for children then you are too young for sex. Go to your doctor or family planning service, even a superdrug chemist, they do pregnancy tests and will tell you there and then whether you are pregnant or not. Yes you can have an abortion if you are under 16.

Answer 7

Hi sarah-louise im a mum of a 16 year old who has just found out she is pregnant, she came and told me that she thought she was so we did the test together, yes i was angry at first and there was a lot of crying screaming and shouting, but we soon calmed down and i am glad she told me, unlike you she wants the baby, not ideal but it has to be her decision. Speak to your mom she can and will help you, yes like me she probally will be angry, but she will get over it, and i think you sound sensible to realise that 15 is to young, but next time make sure you use something. Good luck.

Answer 8

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you are too young for sex.
you cant gamble what you cant afford.
first of all that was a dumb thing you did, yes dumb.
If you think you r pregnant take the test ( read the instructions carefuly) tell your mother ( yes, tell her. it is important for her to know just in case something goes wrong).
Please dont get an abortion unless it is necessary ( sometimes the female cant give birth for some reason or else she dies).
I wish you kids stop thinking with your_________. I just think of my niece and the world she is living in.... i would be devistated if she gets pregnant at an early age....
really.. take the test again... if its positive tell your mother, go to a doctor.. and do the right thing.

Answer 9

You made a mistake, but it shouldn't wreck your life.
Find out where the nearest planned parenthood is, and go there for a free consultation- as well as a pregnancy test(which might not be free). Get your boyfriend to pay for at least half of it.
You should be able to get an abortion.
I would reccomend telling your parents, but its all up to you.
Good luck with whatever you do.

Answer 10

as a mother it's a hard one for me to answer you
but I'm not going to say what all mothers would say if their teenage daughter was in your situation......

firstly if your in the UK and under 16 year old you need some one over 16 to go with you to your doctor and they can test you.
if this worries you then please go to your school nurse who can both test you and give you advise.
if it's your parents that you are worried about the nurse can help you with them also.
if you are pregnant and don't want to give birth because you think you are too young or any of the today problems most teenage girls have
the school nurse can arrange for you to have an abortion
with out parental consent

but please please think carefully about this before any abortion as there are complications....

a) you could regret it for the rest of your life

or

b) you could end up with problems with your womb later on in life

what ever you do make sure it's the right thing for you not your boyfriend or parents after all it's your body
and please look after your self in future for your sake