Is my body language conveying some wrong message?
Do the girls insecure? Or do they feel some sort of guilt, knowing that Muslims approve of modesty rather than skin flashing.
I actually have to tell them to relax and "I'm not looking there" for them to feel at ease.
I'm a bearded Muslim and I look directly into people's eyes when talking.
What do you think?
2006-10-29 12:38:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
its not my ego ladies and gents. I asked this question because of the exact opposite reason. I get upset when girls do that because it means they do not trust being around me, which is not the case.
2006-10-29 15:53:36 · update #1
I think that they probably feel embaressed. They might imagine you judging them for not being modest.
Oh, but when you tell them that "you're not looking there" they probably feel even more embaressed that you noticed. Just don't say anything about it. It's their problem, not yours.
2006-10-29 12:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just full of yourself. This is America, girls here are not that insecure. If they were insecure as you are suggestioning, about their skirts, they would not be wearing them.
I am an American woman, I look directly into a persons eyes when I talk to them too.
Personally I don't know what, the fact you are bearded has to do with anything, I find facial hair on a man disgusting.
2006-10-29 13:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They just 1 2 look more persentable infront of U!.
2006-10-29 12:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by samdesign78 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They know you have a camera phone. Turn it off.
2006-10-30 08:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by E R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are creeping them out by staring.
Cut it out.
2006-10-29 12:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you're flattering yourself
2006-10-29 14:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
...maybe you are a tad too intimidating
2006-10-29 13:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋