I like men, I do and I am sure of that but when I lookat women I think they r beautyful and I want to sort of kiss them or be with them or I start to think what could happen. I've never been with a women in my life and I am not sure of my sexuality. I just know I have this deep attraction to them but don't know how to figure things out.
2006-10-29 12:20:06 · 11 answers · asked by arelis569 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I also seem to feel attracted to lots of actresses I mean lots, I have many pictures of them and I friends already start to think I am a freak or something, but I swear I am not, I just can't help looking at beautyful women and imagine what couls happen or how would it feel kissing them I just...honestly I don't know!!
2006-10-29 12:44:33 · update #1
Its natural to be attracted to people of the same sex, maybe some things in your past have influenced you to feel very comfortable around women, and maybe even too comfortable, but stick with men. It will make your life a lot easier.
2006-10-29 12:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way to be 100% sure whether if you are or not...is to be with a girl. See...if you enjoyed it..does that give you a satsifaction equally as being with a guy or perhaps more. If it does...and you enjoy it then it's safe to say you are bisexual. Which is completely cool and becoming a trend these days with many young girls....all of them have this feeling inside them..an attraction to other girls. The only difference is...how many admit and act on them. You did..so naturally just try it out and see for yourself...rather than be curious and confused about it. I would suggest trying it with someone you trust perhaps a friend....if she would be willing to do so as well. Good Luck Babe!
2006-10-29 21:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Citizen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did figure things out, and then you told a cybergroup of random strangers. More to the point, do you have any personal friends you can trust with this? Could you talk to a family member? Like it or not, your family will eventually figure it out, but it doesn't have to be just yet if you don't want it to be.
Human sexuality is not such a simple push-button exercise as some would have you believe, but rather a spectrum of capacities. Like other human capacities, people differ from each other, sometimes a little, sometimes alot. No big deal.
To quote Socrates "Know thyself." This you have done, and in so doing have avoided all kinds of psychological problems stemming from denial & suppression. Honesty with others begins with honesty with ourself. There is no better way to proceed through life, and our honesty is alot more important than who we kiss, which, quite frankly, most people don't care about.
Peace & Good luck !
;-)
2006-10-29 20:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by WikiJo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Curious at the least, but most likely bi. Welcome to the group! It almost sounds like you're not willing to accept it more than you aren't sure what you are. Let's face it. You want to make out with women and think about take it further. Time to wake up and smell the roses...
2006-10-30 05:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really depends cuz lyk u may think women are beautiful, and want 2 kiss them maybe cuz u envy them or what they look lyk. and kissin anothr frend isnt really bad if its lyk on tha cheek er sumthin. an neways if u hav lyk a best frend then its ok as long as its not anythin serious. er maybe if ur older a small peck on tha lips isnt bad. my mom duz that with her close friends sumtimes as a sign of greeting. or if she hasnt seen sum1 close 2 her in a long tym. so dont really worry bout it. unless u think about really intimate things wit grls. then u can tak 2 sum1 close 2u.
2006-10-29 20:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinsey believed that the majority of us are some degree of bi, although most have a clear preference. The only thing you can do is accept who you are and decide if you wish to act on your feelings, if not, then you can always fantasize.
2006-10-29 20:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totaly know what your going thru. I am in the same situation. I guess it couldnt hurt to consider yourself bi. or bi curious. but if you want to be sure, try a releationship with both sides. also you have time in life to figure things out, so dont rush.
2006-10-29 20:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by ocfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be. I suggest you talk to someone you really trust. It could be nothing.
2006-10-29 20:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could u actually picture urself in bed w/a woman? if u can ur bi.
2006-10-29 20:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be bisexual...if you are that's not the end of the world...
2006-10-29 22:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋