I like this girl and I told her that I want to go out with her about 2months ago.. but nothing happend b/c I haven't talk to her parent.
But now we both like each other but seems like her parent don't like me. But i really like her and I'm going to talk to her parent. Her family is hispanic. I'm thinking to go talk to her parent tomorrow night around 8pm while my friend is working. How should I talk to them?
2006-10-29 12:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by The Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should go over there when she is there also..ESPECIALLY if they are hispanic and you aren't!! Otherwise, you could miss out on a LOT of what they are saying! Having your girlfriend there to will help you to translate everything into English...cuz alot of times they SPEAK English but it doesn't SOUND like English!! And other than that, don't try to be something you aren't!! Parents can see right through that sHitt! BE YOURSELF!! Believe me, dude-that's ENOUGH! Also, LOOK THEM IN THE EYES WHEN THEY ARE TALKING TO YOU AND WHEN YOU ARE TALKING TO THEM!!! (this is HUGE!!) Be respectful and courteous!! Say thank you, please, yes ma'am, no ma'am, yes sir and no sir!!! Don't worry son, you're going to be a huge success!! Start telling yourself that NOW!! And you will be by tommorow! lol you already are..................
2006-10-29 12:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had mum and dad like this and there used to be not anything I would do to difference their methods. I used to be now not allowed thus far, move to events, do any sporting activities/pursuits they'd now not authorised, move to dances, have peers over and despite the fact that I used to be a directly A scholar, I used to be grounded at all times. I needed to stick it out till the day I became 18 and graduated prime tuition. After commencement I went residence, packed my matters and left. After they learned that I left, they requested why and handiest then have been they inclined to pay attention. By that point the harm to our courting used to be performed, so I didn't transfer again residence once more. Your buddy can take a look at speaking, letters, and many others. but when her humans are whatever like mine, it wont do any well.
2016-09-01 04:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act REAL friendly, but not creepily XD lol. if her parents dont like u, screw them. if ur ever gonna get married, u'd have 2 deal with them as IN LAWS!!! *gasp!* Make a good impression, like say 'please', 'thank u', 'good evening' ...ect. all the Barney stuff. pick a non-sensetive topic of convorsation (NO politics, racial remarks, and no religion...!) and when the atmosphere gets comfortable bring up their daughter. if they tense up, chill. they only want to ensure the safety of their child and repeat after me: they do NOT want to murder u!!! So carry on the convo, and good luck!
2006-10-29 12:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by gg_sk8ertm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go over there when she is not with you. Instead, get yourself invited to dinner at her house. Let them get to know you. Once they know that you are with her for the long haul, their attitude will change. Just be patient.
2006-10-29 12:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be brave, be straight forward, be honest, and above all else be
yourself. Look them right in the eyes when you are talking.
2006-10-29 12:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋