ok this may be the stupidest question ever but i don't care. andyou don't have to answer but i just need to let it all out. so i swictched to a public school this year (last year i went to a private highschool) well my 2 best friends from last year are bitches. they had hoped that i would get to grimsley (school im at now) and fall on my face and not make any friends or have fun. well i made tons of friends and am so happy. well they spread a rumor at my old school calling me a whore and saying all these things that wern't true. well of course everyone belived them because i swear that school thrives off drama and gossip. and now im just ugh i don't even really know what my question is..i guess why are girls such bitches? i mean i don't even go their anymore and they still find it fun to talk about me. I'm sorry i made friends and have fun without them..sue me. oh and so what i screwed my boyfriend..god is that such a crime? and now they're calling me a slut..whatever.
2006-10-29 12:03:17 · 13 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Rock on and let it roll off your back....
They are jealous and can't stand the fact that you can go on with out them....
Seems that they are the ones that can't live with out you.
So....that's why they are saying things like they are....
Just don't sink to their level and get back at them...cause that's what they want.....they want to see you get mad and that makes what they say more true....
Be the adult here and show the b*%chs that your the bigger person......
You go girl.....
2006-10-29 12:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Heather O 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not one but as an outsider I see what girls are really like. For the most part teenage girls are cold, cruel, jealous, and catty. From what I've seen of high school aged girls, when another girl (in this case yourself) has an opportunity that the she does not she loses her sense of friendship, turns cold, and jealous. Girls seem to express their jealousy in cruelty and cattiness - spreading rumours and lies around. Again, I'll make another assumption here that I've seen as an outsider (NOT to offend anyone here who might go to a private school!) I've noticed that people who go to private schools, especially girls, tend to be much snobbier and stuck up. With the mixture of the two - the snotty private school girls and the teenage factor, there's the perfect mix for a bratty girl. They aren't totally to blame here though. If you spread around that you screwed your boyfriend you're giving them reason to give you grief and call you what they will. No, it's not a crime for you to sleep with him but also, it's not the best idea in the world. I did in high school and as a result I was a teen parent, and now just a young parent.
If I were in your shoes, I'd just forget about those two and get on with my life. If they were really your friends they'd be nice to you and support you no matter what happens but obviously they're just your average snotty teenage girls and you should stay away from them. Find a new and better crowd to hang with and you'll be happy.
2006-10-29 20:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple advice - don't even worry yourself with people like that!!! They sound like jealous little cows sweetie - so don't bring yourself down by worrying about what they are saying. If you're happy at your new school and have made heaps of friends - it shows that you must be a likeable person - so they are probably squirming because you're cooler than they are....you did something that's pretty scary (moving schools) but you kicked ***!!! So good on you....it shows that they are pretty low & havn't got much of a life if they are spreading rumors about you. And as for the screwing your boyfriend....well i'd hope you are - cause that's what boyfriends are for!!! Again - they sound jealous!! Keep on kickin *** in whatever you do sweetie & they will eventually shut up......what losers!! Good luck :)
2006-10-29 20:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by bellajezz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have the right attitude about the whole thing already. These girls are just jealous because you are getting by without them. Continue on with your new friends and enjoy your new school. Keep up the whole "whatever" attitude and the girls will eventully go away.
2006-10-29 20:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really a question and this is not really an answer but I would like to reassure you that you are not alone. Millions of girls your age go through this every year. Hold your head high and do what is right. The only person who has the right to judge you is you.
2006-10-29 20:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. They seem to be anal for the fact u left the little group at their school. Don't worry about because after high school this stuff will sound really stupid and you will probably never see them again anyway.
2006-10-29 20:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..you do have legal recourse...you could sue her for defamation of character or slander. These comments they made up have definitely damaged your character at your old school..and your new friends would definitely be good character witnesses. wouldn't it be nice to put a little scare into their lives with a lawsuit....
2006-10-29 20:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by bald_guy69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Smile,be happy,and never pay attention to gossip stuff.Ignore that gossip people,and move on in your life.Good luck.
2006-10-29 20:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just changed school. so i know its tough. but, your so called "best friends" are gossiping and slandering you. well, TRUE friends dont ever do that. in fact, friend help each other out. so, just leave them and obviously they are not your friends. do that make sense?
2006-10-30 15:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by cool nerd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, obviously they arent your friends anymore, so stop talking to them. anyone worth talking to can see past the names.
2006-10-29 20:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Willow 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋