How do i secretly find out if my Man has cheated?

Question

I don't want to ask out right or seem too interested. But i want to know! I'm not a jealous person, but could he be taking me for a fool?

Answer 1

i think u probably know your answer if you already suspect the n gut instinct then he probably is
sorry to be so blunt

Answer 2

If he's changed his ways around you, thats a possible giveaway. Check his mobile phone when he's not looking for messages sent and received, and his recent call list. You could follow his actions?
If he's staying late at work or sumthin, call his offices or personal work number and see if he's there (just be prepared for a reason to phone him if he really is working!).
Or start a conversation about a "friend" who's bf/husband has cheated, n find out what he thinks bout it and whether he ever has before he was your man.
Other than that: not a lot else ya can do, excpet sit back n hope it isn;t happening. if you have no concrete evidence against him, then assume everythings fine and as it should be. That way you won't unnecessarily cause trouble or conflict, and you won't lose him.
If u discover he has/is cheating: then u can decide what action to take.

Answer 3

This is easy, when he comes in late and joins you in bed, go down on him. If he turns you down he's cheating cos no man would say no. If you taste the other woman he's cheating too. If neither then maybe it's all in your imagination, but if you feel that he might stray then maybe you should give him every reason to want you above all others

Answer 4

Men are HUNTERS.?
Most will have a bit on the side...NOT because they do not love you.?
Not until you can come to grips with this knowledge will you be able to thrive in a relationship.
What do you think you are going to resolve by finding out that he is cheating..? if he is.( only heartbreak and sadness)
Why don't you look at yourself to see if you could actually be the cause.?
Look to see if you are actually doing everything to stop him from looking elsewhere.?
Be assertive.

Answer 5

Stop trying to always find negative things to pick on guys about , you have a guy and all of a suddern you want to find out if hes cheated . Stop being so insecure your tripping .

Answer 6

You do his washing check his pockets, bag, briefcase, wallet, bank statements, phone bill, rubbish he throws out, any note pads by the phone (by pencil rubbing),
if working late go meet him "surprise" go for a drink, check any regular places he visits with friends. Ask a friend to drive or borrow a car to follow him if going out without you. and above all keep a diary of your suspicions. Been there done it caught the now ex wife out !!!

Answer 7

You just know!!!!!
If you are already questioning about it, it seems that you dont really trust him anymore... Is it worth to be in this kind of relationship?
If I were you, I wouldn't try to search his phones or follow him.. You are sooooooo much better than that.....

Answer 8

and why do you want to find out ?? if he notice that you are searching after him, he will get mad.. as long as he didn't change with you, and as long as he is still giving what he used to give you.... then just ignore it, don't do what most women do or did. You might then lose him for ever..

Answer 9

just go ahead and ask him - ull find out by his answer- if he looks at you n sez no then u know - look at his body lanuage!
ps:
that man on top dudlydude is a b a s * t ar d

Answer 10

Audit his mobile phone, that's one sure way, I'm telling you!!! I cheat on my gf all the time and if she saw my phone I'd be caught in an instant!!! Good luck!

Answer 11

best to find out yourself if you can trust him if cant no point in relateship if you feel that your man had fool you then ask him direct is best way for you that my advice to you