2006-10-29 11:11:58 · 18 answers · asked by smellysquish123 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
yes i have had orgasms...lol....but i have also faked them...lol...sometimes you have to save the guys ego...lol
2006-10-29 11:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by kndykisz 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good lord. I have never faked an orgasm in my life! I've always felt something ... although I think that if there is real feeling between the two people, and they take the time to explore each others' bodies properly, then you can't but hit the fireworks.
Honey, I don't doubt that I've had orgasms. Play around a little while having sex, experiment with fingers and tongues and lubricants and positions and devices, go into it for the fun, start slow and let it get all hot and sweaty.
If the problem is your partner, talk to the person, but don't say 'it's not working for me', much better to say 'why don't we try this, I think it might be nice for both of us'. Remain positive throughout!
Now I'm not one to advocate cheating on your partner, but if the problem is the partner not wanting to be adventurous, or even worse, not caring enough about you to consider your pleasure, then perhaps you might need to reconsider the partner also. But ONLY as a last resort!
In the meantime, have fun!
2006-10-30 06:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had orgasms alright, but sometimes I just cant get to the point of getting an orgasm and then I fake it just so that my man does not have to feel bad and ask questions like, why can't you get one?
2006-10-30 07:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Yollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really, what IS it with your name.
when i first started having sex i faked it until i learned that my orgasm is my responsibility. if i want one i have to make sure i get one, even if i have to help myself.
don't fake it. why cheat yourself just so some guy can feel like a stud. charity begins at home (you).
i have been reading about the extended orgasm and as soon as i get a suitable partner, i'm going to work on it.
i also have been reading about "connections" which is something else i want to try but i think it would be best to be in a long term relationship to work on that.
good luck.
2006-10-29 19:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by july 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe 4 times have i had an orgasm...i find myself faking it more often than not though just to say the least.
2006-10-29 19:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by BlueEyes00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way a real orgasam is created is through self exploration,many womne can do this through direct stimulation of the clitoris,actual vaginal orgasum takes a little practice and experimenting..with different postitions.It is not essential to have an orgasim..men do this much easier than women.
2006-10-30 06:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by janine s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, my hubbys SO good Ive never had to fake it in the last 7 1/2 years!!
2006-10-30 09:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Secret Squirrel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women have experienced orgasm. Unfortunately most men aren't very good at helping them experience them.
2006-10-29 19:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by reslstancelsfutlle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would any woman fake an orgasm? If I don't come then he's gonna know about it & sort me out til I do.
2006-10-30 08:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been capable of an orgasm through intercourse (or any other means for that matter!) I fake my *** off :)
2006-10-29 19:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap, I have experienced an orgasm all right!
2006-10-29 19:13:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋