I think they are lucky if they can get away with it.
2006-10-29 11:17:05
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answered by Anonymous
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I sort of feel the same way about my roommate, although I try and take her mental illness into consideration (my first wife was like this but not nearly as bad), it is still annoying. And I DEFINITELY try to limit my time near her. I do my own laundry, dishes, dust, sweep, mop, clean the bathroom, living room, and even feed/pick up after her dogs, and let them in/out. I do the garbage and bring in the mail, and of course what I do is usually done just not quite correctly, and she let's me know it. And the list goes on and on-some of it too ridiculous and lengthy to post. Once, getting tired of this, I didn't feed her dogs, so she commanded her dogs away from me for two days whenever they came to me for attention-so I stopped showing them attention, and THIS made her mad. lol And she STILL tries to get me to do more and more and more-even dumping/dirtying things intentionally to see if I respond. She has her son or friends do most of her house/ yard work for her, it's just sad. But I have limitations too. In her case I think it is part control issues, part mental illness, and sometimes there is STRONG evidence of her wishing for more than roommate status (which I quell immediately). She DID however, just yesterday, tell me that I was ranked an 11 out of 10 as a roommate in front of a couple that came here, so I'll lean towards the mental illness part the most as being her "sin" (And trust me, I have dealt with some pretty twisted people for some time now-please do not get offended, I do not think all mentally ill people are twisted, just the ones intent on being malignant and overly selfish in behavior) When she complains about what I DO do, I tell her to fire me and do it herself. When she gets depressed and feels like yelling at me, I get a stuffed animal and put it where I was when she started and walk away, and I tell her to yell at that, as I get agitated. No, I don't think she'll go to hell though. So as far as the concerns regarding the person in YOUR life-you can TRY some of my ideas, or shoot them in the leg with a shotgun.
2006-10-29 12:03:49
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answered by For sure 4
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Sloth and YES it is a sin.
(Proverbs 21:25) “The desire of the lazy man kills him, for his hands refuse to labor.”
2006-10-29 11:19:36
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answered by me 3
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It's called laziness
2006-10-29 11:16:44
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answered by BoMbS_aWaY 2
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A lazy slob that may not be living ther for much longer
2006-10-29 12:16:28
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answer #5
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answered by copestir 7
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lazy, i guess. i look at it this way, if this person is allowed to get away with this habit, then that is exactly what they are gonna do. So put your foot down.
2006-10-29 11:23:45
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answered by dkd 2
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L.A.Z.Y. ..........as long as someone else does it because they don't want to live in a pig stye, there are people who get away with being just LAZY.......they like the cleanliness of it, whatever that is..........as long as they don't want to do the work!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 11:21:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, I suppose that laziness / sloth are considered to be a sin...
2006-10-29 11:17:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Sloth is a deadly sin if you're Christian.
2006-10-29 11:11:57
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answered by Anonymous
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lazy
2006-10-29 11:19:59
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answered by carasmom 3
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