what should I do is it normal? I'm 28 female... Just got married. Happily married and sexually happy?? Why canlt get to having an organism?
2006-10-29 11:06:03 · 5 answers · asked by cookielove1430 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you can't be happy sexually if you don't have an orgasm!!!what you have to do is experiment with your husband till you do!!find some books or magazines that can show you ways!!
2006-10-29 11:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably stressing about it too much. My suggestion would be to experiment with oral sex, masturbation, and other types of pleasurable activity. Me, I like a good bit of pressure up against the clit and the pubic bone. SOme women are more into the G-spot, Also, it's a common misconception that women will ejaculate with every orgasm----so if this just about squirting, then relax, you're nor abnormal. There's a lot to be said for being properly hydrated, though.
If you don't mind answering, how do you know you've never had an orgasm? Are you just not getting much pleasure?
2006-10-29 11:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Organism? Lawlz! XD ...
Anyway, jokes aside... Can you masturbate to orgasm?
If not... then I'd start to worry.
If its just the sex issue.... then... well.... Some women can get there from sex and some cannot. I've found that while men tend to be stimulated primarily through their crotchals.... women will generally be a bit more varied...
My ex-wife that I mention so often had to be eaten out for about half an hour to get to orgasm... which was something I always did for her since I was dedicated.... but it got painful after a while.
I'm not sure what it could be in your case.... but chances are that normal sex just isn't your trigger... and you need special treatment.
2006-10-29 11:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, remember: Not every woman has an orgasm every time she has sex. If you try not to put any pressure on yourself, and enjoy what you're doing, whether you have an orgasm or not, you will have one more likely.
Try having an orgasm by yoursrlf. Can you do that? Masturbating is a very useful way to get to know your own body and what is it that you like. If you find out something, you can talk about it with your husband. Teach him how to touch you, ask him to stimulate your clitoris while having intercourse, try oral sex, and remember to use tons of lubricant during sex.
Think about your sex life: Are you afraid of letting yourself go? Is there something you would like to explore but you're afraid of what your partner might think? If there is something you can't figure out by yourself, try seeking for professional help. About 90% of the women who seek help because of their lack of orgasm can learn to have one without problems.
In any case, don't be afraid or ashamed of your problem. It's an easy thing to solve, and it's extremely common. There is tons of very useful reading about it on the web that might help you. Good Luck!
2006-10-29 11:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by remedymolly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to learn how to help you achieve an orgasm.
2006-10-29 11:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋