having another baby.?

Question

I had twin girls at the end of august,they passed away at 1 hour old.I know that it hasnt been long but yeah i do feel im longing for what has been lost,quite rightly.nothing would ever replace my girls but i just think that having a baby its not only what i want its what i need to..i just wanted to know if anyone else has been in my position after losing a child or in my case children.

Answer 1

Yes i have been in the exact situation. A few years ago i was pregnant with a little boy and i had exactly turned 5 months pregnant and my water broke, i then had to give birth to a still born baby 2 days later. I was heart broken. 5 months later i got pregnant again,of course it was not planned but i was SO happy and in a sense relieved too as well, had a beautiful baby girl and i still remember and think of my son and always will. I would honestly say that the best thing would probably be for you to try and try and try again. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

Just go for it. No, you cannot replace what you have lost and you woill love & remamber them for ever but you long for a child so go for it. Yes, I know how you feel as we lost a twin in March.

Answer 3

i lost a baby this year and i got pregnant straight away it was not planned and im expecting twins now im sorry for your loss and good luck

Answer 4

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS!! BUT I REALLY THINK THAT IT IS UP TO YOU, I'M SURE ANOTHER BABY WOULD NEVER REPLACE THE ONES YOU LOST BUT ON THE OTHER HAND IT MAY HELP YOU COPE WITH IT A LITTLE BETTER, NOT FROM PERSONAL EXP. BUT EXP WITH A REALLY GOOD FRIEND OF MINE,SHE SAID HER LAST ONE WOULD NOT REPLACE THE ONE SHE LOST BUT HELPED EASE HER MIND A LITTLE , GOOD LUCK,GOD BLESS

Answer 5

yea i do i lost my baby at 3 mons, and i want to get prego now