what would you do if your daughter was doing gross things in front of the teacher?

Question

One day back when I was in High School ('99) my friends mom told us something really gross. She told us that when she went to my friends younger brothers PTO open house that the teacher told the parents that girls were wearing skirts and they would sit in the seats with their legs spread open with out any panties on. The teacher told the parents he was a married man and that he had to always look up at the ceiling when the girls did that.

If you are a teacher, were a teacher, plan on being a teacher in the near future, what would you do in that situation? I would mainly expect answers from males, but you can add your 2 cents in if you want if you are a female teacher.

If you are a parent what would do if you found out your daughter was doing that in school?

Answer 1

Call the social worker, the student, her parents, the principal and arrange a meeting.
And if I were a parent I would suspend all her privileges, make her go to school with pants and take her to a psychologist or psychiatrist.

Answer 2

I am a teacher and had to deal last year with a middle school student (male) coming back to class with his zipper down and his ***** exposed. Fortunately and unfortunately I was the only one who noticed and the student pulled up his zipper as he sat back down. I contacted the counselor who then spoke to both the student and parents. It's a hard call to make but I would have to say no more skirts, some serious counseling (ask the school for advice) and perhaps move the student to a female teacher until they can learn proper decorum in the classroom. Have them checked for medical problems also. Their might be a reason for not wearing underpants, itchyness, leakage, or some other problem that needs medical attention before mental attention.

Answer 3

I am a man and experienced a somewhat similar situation when I was in school, the culprits were girls of course. Our married teacher simply said boldly with everyone listening "I did not know we had so many girls from poor families who can not afford to buy panties (knickers),you are still so young that by the time you are old enough to have boyfriends, they will need hoovers and dust extractors to clean up the dust you are gathering everyday without wearing a pant." There was such a row of laughter from the class but the teacher maintained his cool and added, " I could speak to the school fund raising committee to see if they can assist those who can't afford to buy knickers,but of course we need to formally inform your parents first and the local paper for possible donations. That sealed it apart from humiliation these girls moved to the back of the class.

Answer 4

I would go to Administration, the first time it happened. I would document every time it happened - names, dates, etc. and keep my principal informed with copies of my documentation. I would expect him to contact the parents immediately. And I would request that the girls be transferred from my class.

I am a female teacher, but I certainly would protect myself against false accusations/lawsuits if I were a male.

It it were my daughter who was doing that, I would seek therapy/counseling for her, as it smacks of exhibitionist behavior or sexual harrassment. And you can bet she would be wearing pants to school - no more skirts.

What do you think would happen if a male student sat in class with his fly open and his genitals showing? You can bet he'd be hauled off.! Girls should not get away with such repugnant behavior - it should be stopped immediately, with appropriate consequences.

Answer 5

I would bring a camera and take a picture as proof of this. then call DHS and report that the students told me thier parents made them go with skirts and no panties. No one would believe if the students say its not true with photos for proof. that **** would be over with guaranteed!!!!!!

Answer 6

I would sell her to a chinese labor camp.