I gave to my fiance an item of jewelry. It wasn't a ring but something else. I was very dear to me and I gave it to her in full trust I would be spending the rest of my life with her. I don't know what women do with such items, but I'm pretty sure they never wear them again when they are not with that person anymore. Is that right? Or do they keep it and still feel some happiness having it? For me, I want the item back. But only if she is going to put it in a box and never look at it again. Maybe she's thrown it out. I certainly don't want to be an indian-giver. The reason I want it back is due to the fact I was giving it to her in thinking she was going to be my lifes partner. She had other plans and left me rather quickly. Is it wrong for me to want it back? I could buy another one I know, but for practical reasons, I actually need it back to show a jeweler so I can get another one lol.
2006-10-29 10:37:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For people asking, she was the one who left me. And she even told me later I had done nothing wrong in the relationship. She was sorry to have caused me hurt. She was and is in love with her ex. So that was the reason she left me. As far as the jewelry item goes, I gave it to her as a sign of my commitment to her. She gave me a similar item for which I returned to her. I loved it, but it hurt too much to even see it and I knew it would be better to give it back than to hide it forever. I figured she would do the same, but she never did let alone contact me again. Maybe I am an indian giver, but I honestly don't feel that way. I gave her many things. This one thing however was meant for my lifes partner. That is why I want it back.
2006-10-29 10:45:29 · update #1
BUT YOU ARE ACTING LIKE A PRE SCHOOL HER INDAIN GIVER
2006-10-29 10:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If this was a gift given to her with the expressed purpose of engagement, ask her to return the item. If she refuses, take her to small claims court.
If you just gave it to her as a gift with no relationship conditions, the jewerly is hers and you have no right to retrieve it.
This item doesn't seem to have any sentimental value. Unless you are just looking for prolonged contact with this woman, it seems it is best to just let it go.
2006-10-29 10:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Gordo J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this:
Which is more important to you?
A girl who left you, who doesn't care about that ring, whom you will probably never see again for the rest of your life
OR
The ring that was very dear to you
2006-10-29 16:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by justice_batsu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To Jess, he did not go the boundary, she did, by technique of accepting them. to respond to your question. in case you date someone for 3 years the prospect is you may want to nonetheless be good acquaintances. I remained acquaintances with various old boyfriends. in spite of the indisputable fact that, i'd not in any respect settle for own type presents from them after I had yet another boyfriend (now my Husband). absolutely does not placed on a chunk of jewellery they gave me. surely i does not settle for it to commence with. i imagine your female friend is contained in the incorrect.
2016-12-05 08:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by mallie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her the truth or the reason why u want it back and see if she gives it back. but that would make you an indiangiver
2006-10-29 10:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should give it back as long as she didnt catch you cheating on her and she was the one that ended the relationship
2006-10-29 10:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋